OP, please, please don't get so emotionally involved in your 2nd graders grade in school.
She will pick up (from you and dh) what is not only required but acceptable in regards to her grades and when to challenge the grade she thinks deserves. Let her have the opportunity to learn, grow, make friends and enjoy her school years without all the stress of "being perfect" for you.
She will pick up (from you and dh) what is not only required but acceptable in regards to her grades and when to challenge the grade she thinks deserves. Let her have the opportunity to learn, grow, make friends and enjoy her school years without all the stress of "being perfect" for you.
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