Any regrets?

[BabyPiglet]

Okay, I'm going to go morbid on you guys.

So if all of your loved ones, your friends, family, or even people you've encountered once or twice. People on the DIS. Just everyone you know.

If they all died, would you have any regrets. Would you think back, and say "I could have been nicer" or "I could have done what she asked me".

If you really think about it. That should motivate you to be a nicer person.

Hard to explain.

But anyway, I saw a post by Herclover, that young DISer who died. And I thought to myself, that I might have flamed her for something totally stupid.

Or thinking about my mom, today I wouldn't do the dishes, but I mean...I'd feel pretty bad about that if something happened to her.

So just think about it. Think hard. Maybe it will insipire you to change the bad parts about you. Maybe it won't. Maybe you'll laugh at me. Maybe you'll flame me for asking these questions.

So just think.

 

[Arielfn93]

I have lots of regrets of things i did to my mom.

Some days i would just be so mad at her because she couldn't really be a mom. That has made me realize that i need to be kinder to my dad, and listen better, because you never really know what could happen.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I have lots of regrets of things i did to my mom.

Some days i would just be so mad at her because she couldn't really be a mom. That has made me realize that i need to be kinder to my dad, and listen better, because you never really know what could happen.

*hugs*

 

[CrazyChik]

aw thanx jen. bring me down just when i'm back up

i don't know. if my parents or family died i gues i'd regret not being a little bit nicer to them and not spending enough time with them.

if sparky died i wouldn't regret a thing. not even the times i made him fall over jumps, not the times he bucked and reared on the road in front of everyone and not the times he overtook the person infront and then wouldn't jump coz it was all part of his training and my training it appears. if i was a cold and uncaring person(towards sparky) i might be angry that 8 months of training had resulted in nothing, but then there not gonna result in a world-class horse anyways.

if someone off here died. i dunno i don't think i've left it on a bad note with anyone. have i?

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

Yes.
I could've visited my great grandmother that one day. (I've told the story a billion and a half times.)
However, dwelling on things that happened two years ago won't help, and won't change the past.

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

if everyone died i'd be sad.


but. i truthfully don't think i would feel bad. for me, not being nice to someone is because someone didn't A) do something respectful B) listen to directions or C) know the rules about not bugging the crap out of michelle.

they always earn my yelling. i know that sounds weird, but it's true.

i don't just go up to some random person and am just like I HATE YOU BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH. and i truthfully hate people who do.

my opinion. and jam i'm superr sorry.

 

[PurpleDucky]

I don't have any regrets. I can't change what happened in the past no matter how hard I try. I just keep moving on with life and forgive myself for what I did.

 

[Cookies.]

I live without regrets. Remember your past, but live in your future.

 

[CrazyChik]

quoting a robbie williams song that kinda says it all(the song be called no regrets):

No regrets they don't work
No regrets they only hurt

 

[Babyjustrun]

There are some things, I feel bad about, but I guess I can't do anything about it. I don't regret it everyday and it doesn't take my life over.
But I was going through a box of pictures, and found one of me showing a Christmas gift to my grandmother. Off to the side, you can see another old lady stretching her head to see what it was. I probably never even showed her it.
That lady, was my uncles mother (he's married to my aunt, so the lady was not my grandmother). I hardly ever spoke to her when she came over, and hardly acknowledged her.
She died a few years back, and now I feel bad that I didn't talk to her.

Same goes for my grandparents, I didn't pay them enough attention. I never had the 'OMG I LOVE YOU' kind of relationship with them. I hardly talked to them, and hardly did anything with them.
With two of them gone, it kind of makes me want to change my relationship with my other two.

 

[AngienLuLu]

No regrets.

 

[hidmickey:myantidrug]

No, I wouldn't. For one thing, I don't believe in regrets at all. Secondly, I would not change who I am for someone, whether they're dead or not. Even if I knew my best friend had 2 days to live, I wouldn't do anything I normally wouldn't do for her. I wouldn't suddenly start getting up to throw out her garbage at lunch. That's not who I am. Besides that, if I were dying, I'd absolutly hate it if someone were acting like it. I'd feel like crap. It's not my goal to make people feel like they're dying.