Any other DISers trying to concieve? Reread OP for the QOTD!

[TinkerChelle]

Rebecca, MomSully, Gurgi, Elaine and Allison----Thank you so much for your words of encouragement! I wish I had found this thread months ago!

Allison--Thanks for your support. I think I am leaning towards not testing until after my missed AF, but my partner really wants to test tomorrow morning. I will relay your story to her and see what she thinks after that.

I was on my way home last night from work and began cramping! I was nearly in tears by the time I got home. I have a 2 hour commute. I did not bleed at all. My Partner, Amy said she thought the cramping is from implantation it was the 8th day after ovulation.??!!! What a roller coaster ride...Wait.. Rock-n-roller coaster ride! All of you are so courageous to go through this month after month!

Hope everyone has a magical and good and healthy day!

 

[helenabear]

Kristy, I wonder if that would have been possible on GA... then again I have no idea how surrogate IVF works. However we all know that GA isn't all that accurate with some of their ideas
It could have made for a real good storyline though!

Allison That is too funny how everyone reacted to the grapefruit juice. Then again I haven't been able to swallow hat stuff down. I seriously would have to mix it with something else I think.

Momsully, I am in central Ohio near Columbus. I am about 100 miles or so from the heart of Cincy. We usually can get to most places there w/in 1.5 hours or so.

Gurgi
That sig has been there forever too I think I took that picture in 2002 while I was walking by myself around WS. I looked up at the sky and saw the rays of light. I just had to take it!
How I really wish I could be there sometime soon though... I really miss WDW

Chelle (yep I shorten names when I can ) that could be implantation cramping. You could see spotting too if that is it. It happens at various times for some (I've read 4-10 days... I don't think they know for sure ) Not everyone gets it or has spotting, but it isn't uncommon either

 

[TinkerChelle]

So last night DH wanted to try the grapefruit juice. I gave him a small glass (less than 1/2 the size of mine) and he couldn't do it! LOL! He actually gave it to the dog...Milo kept licking, but it was very slowly and you could tell he didn't really care for it. We also gave some to DS. I SO wish I would have had the video camera on him...his face was priceless! LOL! It's actually getting better for me. That initial sip is still rough, but it's not too bad. HOpefully it works! DH made the mistake of asking what it was for...he's not very into talking about CM. LOL! Doesn't exactly get him in the mood. He was totally confused about my taking the grapefruit juice and mucinex at the same time. I tried to explain, but he didn't want to hear it after the first few mentions of CM!

allison

You know it is BAD if the dog doesn't like it!

 

[TinkerChelle]

Chelle (yep I shorten names when I can ) that could be implantation cramping. You could see spotting too if that is it. It happens at various times for some (I've read 4-10 days... I don't think they know for sure ) Not everyone gets it or has spotting, but it isn't uncommon either

Hoping it is implantation cramping. Only time will tell.

 

[momsully]

Tinkerchelle - Hope things are going OK today.

helenabear - I was in Columbus about 2 months ago for work. We actually flew into Dayton, drove to Columbus, down to Cincinnati, then back to Dayton to fly home. There are nonstop flights from Denver to Dayton which makes it comvenient to visit my inlaws.

I am supposed to be working but have spent more time surfing this morning than I should. I need to get motivated!!

 

[Gurgi]

I sure wish this was my month for a BFP, I had cramping for 2 days that made me think it was the start of my period. I even ran to the bathroom a few times just to make sure it didn't. Wouldn't that be a riot if an OOPS! happened this month, 'cause we were supposed to be careful? LOL.

I'm soooo tired today. I went swimming for about hour last night, then worked out on one of those old school stairmasters for about 30 minutes. When I woke up this morning, I thought I wouldn't be able to get out of bed. I look forward to getting into shape so I won't be a sore chickie anymore.

Anyone have any bewbie watches going on???

 

[2MuchOhana]

So, today I went to my regular doctor for a physical. As expected she told me I needed to lose some weight and my blood pressure was out of whack! She is highly recommending that we wait at least a few months before we start TTC again. This way the blood pressure can be under control and I can lose some weight. I am so bumming right now! At least she didn't say I had to wait six months, though.

 

[mickeyboat]

So, today I went to my regular doctor for a physical. As expected she told me I needed to lose some weight and my blood pressure was out of whack! She is highly recommending that we wait at least a few months before we start TTC again. This way the blood pressure can be under control and I can lose some weight. I am so bumming right now! At least she didn't say I had to wait six months, though.

Disappointing, but you want to be the healthiest mommy you can be before you get PG! We'll cheer you on from cyberspace.

Denae

 

[Gurgi]

So, today I went to my regular doctor for a physical. As expected she told me I needed to lose some weight and my blood pressure was out of whack! She is highly recommending that we wait at least a few months before we start TTC again. This way the blood pressure can be under control and I can lose some weight. I am so bumming right now! At least she didn't say I had to wait six months, though.

mickeyboat is right, we'll cheer you on

 

[TinkerChelle]

So, today I went to my regular doctor for a physical. As expected she told me I needed to lose some weight and my blood pressure was out of whack! She is highly recommending that we wait at least a few months before we start TTC again. This way the blood pressure can be under control and I can lose some weight. I am so bumming right now! At least she didn't say I had to wait six months, though.

I am sorry to hear you have to wait a few months. We were originally going to try in January, but due to some cyst issues I was having we ended up having to wait 5 months! I know it stinks Good luck with the weight loss! YOU CAN DO IT!

MomSully---No Cramping Today Yet!

 

[helenabear]

Momsully, that is so cool that you come to my area of this country so much. I think Dayton is the only major airport in Ohio I haven't flown in or out of. Good location if going to Columbus and Cincy though.

Gurgi, accidents can happen (heck look at me, both times were totally accidental... kind of taking mental breaks from TTC and wham)

2Much, I am sorry about the doctor's appt. I do agree with Denae and Gurgi though... and we'll be here cheering you on all the way!

We're helping a friend move tonight so I have about an hour before I need to get out of here.

 

[2MuchOhana]

Thanks everyone! It's just hard because I am not getting any younger here pushing 40, you know! So, for me waiting a few months or more is going to seem like the sand running out of the ! It took so long to have DD 6 (married almost 11 years) that I am concerned if I wait too much longer I won't be able to have another one.

Anyway, I do want to be really healthy from the start which is why I finally went to see my regular doctor. She has also recommended a new ob/gyn for me, too. Mine moved to a new and much further away location. She called over to her office to check what was blood pressure medicine to prescribe! That way if I do get pregnant again the medicine I am on would be safe to use.

While, I am disappointed about the miscarriage; I know now that it probably would not have been safe for me to be so. I got it straight from the doctors mouth! My arm is starting to throb from the lovely tetnus/whooping cough shot; so I will catch up with everyone later.

Thanks again for helping me try to feel a little bit better!
Jodi

Pixie Dust for BFP's for all those TTC and Congrats to everyone that did!

 

[DisneyDreamer8]

2much: I'm sure you will reach your goal before you know it. You have a wonderful reason for motivation Plus we are a pretty good cheering section

Well I got a baby shower invitation today. I don't know if I can go or not. I'm glad she finally got her baby (she had three m/c's) to stick...I'm happy for her but I just don't think I can sit there and watch her open all those cute baby gifts without crying. I don't want to cry in front of her because I don't want her to feel bad on her day. Plus it will be on my CD23. That last week and a half of my cycle is when my wonderful clomid-charged emotions take over and I cry at the stupidest things. What do I do???? Be selfish or face it????

 

[mickeyboat]

What do I do???? Be selfish or face it????

First of all, don't think you are a bad/selfish person for feeling the way you do.

Second, it is really up to you whether you can "face it." How close are you to this person? Would you really break down at the shower, or would you be able to save it for when you got home?

If it were me, I would try to go. If you really think you can't, then talk to your friend so she understands why, and buy her a killer gift or get her a gift certificate for some mommy pampering.

ETA - while she is opening gifts, you can think about how great they are going to be as hand-me-downs when you finally get your baby! And think of the shower as a celebration of hope - for someone who overcame great obstacles to become a mom

 

[2bemarried]

Hi all....crazy day here

Allison Your poor DH must have been tramatized by that grapefruit juice

LOL Gurgi. I don't think DH's can understand how we tell our docs everything!

MomSully I also have PCOS so if you need to discuss it feel free to PM me. I take Metformin 3 times a day.

Chelle I'm sending baby dust your way that it was implantation cramps.

Elaine I agree..not all of their stories are possible. YAY that tonight is the finale. It's so bittersweet.

2muchohana I'll ditto what the other's have said. Believe me..if I can lose 25 pounds from January to now...you can do it too!! The hopes of a baby is powerful motivation.

Rebecca only you can decide if you feel up to going to the shower. Is it possible to call your friend and say congratulations, sorry you can't be there but you'll be thinking of her?

I'm the gullible one today. My best friend has a schedule conflict tomorrow at lunch. She either takes her grandmother to the doctor or her son to Gymboree. Obviously the doctor's appt takes precedence so I offered to take her son to his class. I'm so gullible I'm going to be in a room with a bunch of 3 year olds running around and playing. Do you know how much my heart is going to be aching for one?

I was already a couple ball of tears last night watching "Brothers and Sisters". I don't want to spoil it for anyone that hasn't seen it..so I'll just say there were some issues with twins being born at 29 weeks.

 

[DisneyDreamer8]

First of all, don't think you are a bad/selfish person for feeling the way you do.

Second, it is really up to you whether you can "face it." How close are you to this person? Would you really break down at the shower, or would you be able to save it for when you got home?

If it were me, I would try to go. If you really think you can't, then talk to your friend so she understands why, and buy her a killer gift or get her a gift certificate for some mommy pampering.

ETA - while she is opening gifts, you can think about how great they are going to be as hand-me-downs when you finally get your baby! And think of the shower as a celebration of hope - for someone who overcame great obstacles to become a mom

Thanks for the advice I'm getting teary just thinking about it. THIS SUCKS!!!

She is not my BFF but we have become friends. She and her husband are close friends with my sister then they started coming camping and hunting with us so we became friends as well. She knows that we are having trouble TTC so I know she would understand if I don't end up going.

She has overcome alot and I am so happy for her. I wish nothing but the best for her and her baby boy.

It's still a hard decision.

 

[PrincessSuzanne]

Suzanne - I don't kow what to say but I really am thinking of you.

Meredith - Wow, twins! That is awesome.

Skuttle - I am working up the nerve for the grapefruit juice but I am a finicky eater.

Gurgi - Congratulations on the weight loss! Good to hear the doctor appointment went well. DH sounds like mine. I can tell him something, he acknowledges it, and still forgets.

TinkerChelle - Welcome to the group. I have lurked forever and just started trying to post but this group moves fast. Good luck with testing

HelenaBear - Where in Ohio are you? We are headed to Cincinnati next weekend to visit DH's family.

Sorry to everyone I miss, I can't keep up but know I read all your stories and have nothing but good thoughts and prayers for all of you.

As for me I was released from the hospital on Sunday and the doctor said to stop the Clomid. My OB said my DHEA levels are a little high and I have some symptoms of PCOS so if I don't get pregnant this cycle we are going to try metaformin.

I am one who has a hard time hearing others are pregnant but it does not mean I am not happy for them. I do however listen with a heavy heart. DSil called us last year while we were walking back from Epcot to tell us she was pregnant with #2. Talk about a mood killer in the happiest place on earth. DSIS and her DH also get pregnant really easy so it is hard but I still love them and my DNieces.

Baby Dust to Everyone! I hope to see some BFP's really soon!

I am on Metformin for PCOS and I think it has actually helped me. I have been on it since February and I O'd on my own for the first time ever this month, well of course I had some help from Soy Isoflavones (and it is alot cheaper than Clomid. I paid $5.00 for I think 100 tablets at Target and it has alot less side effects and it is OTC), which I take instead of Clomid. Clomid didn't do anything for me, except cause a huge cyst in my right ovary for which I had to take BCP's. Unfortunately for sanity reasons I decided to stop TTCing. My Gyn decided that I should continue with the Met and other OTC meds just to continue to regulate my cycles and if something happens it does. Good Luck and if you do start taking Met, take it after your meals for less side effects (stomach issues).

Suzanne

 

[DisneyDreamer8]

Hi all....crazy day here

Rebecca only you can decide if you feel up to going to the shower. Is it possible to call your friend and say congratulations, sorry you can't be there but you'll be thinking of her?

I'm the gullible one today. My best friend has a schedule conflict tomorrow at lunch. She either takes her grandmother to the doctor or her son to Gymboree. Obviously the doctor's appt takes precedence so I offered to take her son to his class. I'm so gullible I'm going to be in a room with a bunch of 3 year olds running around and playing. Do you know how much my heart is going to be aching for one?

I was already a couple ball of tears last night watching "Brothers and Sisters". I don't want to spoil it for anyone that hasn't seen it..so I'll just say there were some issues with twins being born at 29 weeks.

Sorry you have had a crazy day. I know what you mean about heartache watching kids play. Your not gullible you have a huge heart!!! I know that you will be a mom soon!!!!

I could call my friend and she would completly understand. She knows about our struggle. I really want to be there to support her. I guess I just really need to think about this for awhile.

 

[Gurgi]

Sorry you have had a crazy day. I know what you mean about heartache watching kids play. Your not gullible you have a huge heart!!! I know that you will be a mom soon!!!!

I could call my friend and she would completly understand. She knows about our struggle. I really want to be there to support her. I guess I just really need to think about this for awhile.

If you don't feel comfortable, do not force yourself to go. She should understand, especially having 3 miscarriages of her own.

And don't feel selfish about it at all!!

 

[ImarriedGrumpy]

Hi Ladies!! I tell ya, I spend 4 days puking and running to dr. appointments and suddenly I have almost 10 pages to catch up on here!

Our HMO continues to drive me nuts, but I just keep telling myself that at least we have insurance. Unfortunately, we're still on the Cobra from when DH was laid off because he doesn't get insurance with his current contracting job. And the Cobra runs out at the end of December, and I'm due Dec 19. We're really hoping DH can find another job WITH benefits before then...

We leave Saturday for our Alaska cruise! I'm just hoping I don't get seasick on top of my current nausea. Some days are okay, and others are miserable, and I'm always tired. I guess it won't be our best vacation ever, but at least I can get away from changing dirty diapers for a week. The toddler I watch has suddenly decided to poop twice a day for me rather than her old pattern of pooping while she was still at home... Blech!

Well, I had thought that getting the BFP would put an end to insensitive TTC comments from friends and family, but yet another friend said "it took you long enough. I was sure (x & y) were going to beat you to it. Whose fault was it that you couldn't get pregnant?" when we announced I was preg. Good grief! Talk about sucking the joy out of telling people.



I've decided to stop worrying that I'm going to MC, and to take a step of faith... So I have a bunch of "pee in a cup" OPK's (pee cup not included ), an unopened box of preseed, and some "help you get pregnant herbal supplements" (I can't remember what they're called) that I'd love to pass on to any of you wonderful TTC ladies here. I confess that I've been hanging on to them because I've been scared that I'll lose this baby and I'd need it all again, but last night as DH and I were talking I just felt like I need to trust and step out in faith that it will be okay. So if anyone is interested, send me a PM and if I get it before tomorrow afternoon I'll get the stuff in the mail tomorrow. Otherwise I'm afraid it will have to be after Memorial Day since we'll be on vacation. (sorry!) I'd just really like this stuff to go to one of you, since I don't know what I would have done without this thread to get me through the horrible months of BFN after BFN.