Another Dr. Office policy question..

At this point I think that a phone call or letter to the office manager is called for. Just explain that you really like your current dr but this policy has made it difficult for you and your DH to continue to be patients there. I would also explain that the lack of explanation for the policy is also weighing in on your decision to possibly switch practices.

I really want to know their explanation!!! It really doesn't make sense to me!! (I like the PP's suggestion to ask what would happen if you or your DH had a brain tumor...maybe they will be more direct with you if you are direct with them :confused3 )
 
While this is true, they are captain of the ship, that is until the wife comes along, and I believe that the OP said his wife was the office manager. Now before any physicians wive's get mad here, I know that not all of them are like this, but I have worked for many Dr's in my life and most of them didn't want to deal with their wive's and if the wife ran the office then so be it, whatever she said goes. I also worked for one that told me, I don't care what you have to do, keep my wife out of this office, she tries to reaarrange everything I do.so maybe that is the problem. not the Dr but the office manager. Sorry for any typos, or spelling errors, I type too fast for my own good and am too lazy to go back and correct it.

Well you certainly raised an issue that I didn't consider, nor can I relate to. THAT indeed may be the best reason to leave the practice. She can run the house, if she needs to "run something", but he should "run" the office and set the policies. To have him even suggest that there is nothing he can do about it, makes me wonder about his ability to assert himself when serious medical decisions need to be made. I would get a new doc if he didn't amend the policy.
 
If you want my opinion....
Has nothing to do with HIPPA.

You would be surprised, all the nonsense some providers blame on hippa.

For instance...our ped dentist says that b/c of hipaa, patient parents can't talk on their cellphones. Last I heard, hippa impacts the provider..it doesn't put any rules onto the patients. And if they'd just stop from coming out into the crowded waiting room and speaking clearly, loudly, and in depth, about patients' needs, conditions, and issues, then perhaps they wouldnl't have a problem. We love the dentist for his skills, but as soon as DS is ready to come to my and hubby's dentist, we're out of there and leaving quite the letter for them about putting restrictions on people in the waiting room and blaming it on hipaa.



Given how litigious people are today, I don't blame any doctor for being meticulous and over-cautious with regard to how they comply with HIPAA.

On the other hand, hipaa is a set of rules for the provider. If one guy says that xyz is b/c of hipaa, but that's not actually in the rules, seems that guy is now wide open for a problem.

So let's say the OP's doctor refuses to let her in the room, and her hubby forgets something that turns out to be vitally important. Because of the problem, hubby ends up with something seriously wrong; if OP had been in the room, the condition would have been mentioned, the doseage would have been questioned or understood more perfectly, etc. Because this restriction is NOT part of hipaa, assuming the hubby isn't secretly saying "no, she can't come in", hipaa isn't going to be a legal leg to stand on, when OP rightfully reports the guy.


I have seen nothing in HIPAA that says that regular emergency contact designation satisfies the privacy requirements for doctor-patient discussions.

I agree with that!

Also, your DH could write down any of his/your concerns to present to the dr. so he won't forget anything.

As far as hipaa, you will find a different form in every office you go to. There are standards to follow but offices are left to their own devices to construct the verbiage. In ours it's a generic form but has nothing to do with to whom we are allowed to speak.

I definitely think that if the OP is going to continue to go, that's what hubby will have to do.

That different form thing...it's so ridiculous. And, um, isn't "to whom we are allowed to speak" one of the biggest parts of the purpose of hipaa??????


What's driving me batty about it is that the way the forms are makes it seem taht hipaa is put on the patients. When it's the providers that are impacted by it. We, as patients, should be having the providers sign forms. "this is who you can talk to, this is who you can't, you can call me here. now PROMISE that you won't talk to anyone I haven't told you you can talk to".

I'm definitely thinking of writing up some of those forms, b/c they make more sense than the providers giving US forms for US to sign. It impacts THEM, governs THEM, not US.
 
You would be surprised, all the nonsense some providers blame on hippa.

That's exactly what I was trying to get across. The ONLY person who can file a HIPAA violation is the person who's information was released without their consent. If a husband allows the wife in the examining room, then that is implied consent by the patient. The doctor is NOT violating any HIPAA regulations by letting that occur.
I go with DH for ALL of his appointments, since I'm the one filling his drug "box" and monitoring his condition. I would not go to a doc who didn't allow this.
 

And silliness never ensues when husband and wife divorce. :rotfl:
 
That wouldn't work for me. If I am being seen and want someone with me, by gum they are going with me or I am going elsewhere.
 
I wanted to speak with my DH's dr a few years ago about some issue he was having and I knew he wasn't going to explain it very well. So we both went in together for his appt. I started by trying to explain what was going on but she shushed me and would only let DH speak. I think she was afraid I was lying for him or bullying him into saying he was sick? I definitely got the feeling that she didn't trust what I had to say about him, even though I had taken really detailed notes I wanted to share with her about when he started having symptoms and for how long. I was definitely annoyed and even though I really liked her for other things, we didn't go back to see her again. Even if she wanted to quietly ignore what I was saying to make her diagnosis, I at least need the 'bedside manner' of her pretending like my concerns mattered!
 
I felt like I could have written that post, and when I saw OP's location, I wondered if we have the same doctor! I love my doctor, but I hate his staff (not personally, but their work ethic). Dr's wife is office manager, but it's hard to contact her. Also, pharmacy tried to contact them 4 times for approval to fill a standing prescription (had to renew approval because I transferred it to VA while I was working there and it's a controlled substance and can only be transferred once w/o Dr's approval). Scrip finally filled today after 2-week delay.

There's another family practice in the same location and after I speak w/Dr if things don't change, we may move; it's hard, tho, because we both have semi-serious health issues.

Queen Colleen
 
I felt like I could have written that post, and when I saw OP's location, I wondered if we have the same doctor! I love my doctor, but I hate his staff (not personally, but their work ethic). Dr's wife is office manager, but it's hard to contact her. Also, pharmacy tried to contact them 4 times for approval to fill a standing prescription (had to renew approval because I transferred it to VA while I was working there and it's a controlled substance and can only be transferred once w/o Dr's approval). Scrip finally filled today after 2-week delay.

There's another family practice in the same location and after I speak w/Dr if things don't change, we may move; it's hard, tho, because we both have semi-serious health issues.

Queen Colleen


The Dr. I go to is located in Celebration...Wow, your description sounds JUST like my doc...

Sending you a PM with Dr. name...
 

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