A few comments and then I will tell you what I did.
I think it's hilarious that your conversation took up more of her time than ringing up would have.
Yep! I really was rather humored over the situation, up to a point.
She was working on the ornament and looking down the entire time though. Obviously she was very good at multi-tasking--- she was able to be rude and work at the same time!
If the owner of the kiosk was a savvy business person, they would have had more than one person staffing a Christmas ornament mall kiosk during the busy Christmas season. One person to run sales the other to personalize. It's not rocket science.
If they're being cheap and can't figure out that low staff means fewer sales, then Darwinism reigns and they deserve to go out of business.
In their defense, I doubt that they had predicted how busy the mall would be when the schedule was made. Many schools and some business closed because of icy weather over night and that morning. But by mid morning the roads were clear so the mall was quite busy. However, it was obvious by about an hour after the mall opened that it was going to be a busy day so someone else could have been called. But this kiosk has been in this mall at Christmas time every year and I have never seen more than one employee there at a time.
The best approach would be to start advocating for everyone to do #1, to regain for #1 some significant power as a tactic.

Wouldn't that mean that I would have to stand at the kiosk and tell people that walk up not to buy from them? Which would probably get me in trouble? Malls don't take kindly to protests and in person store boycotts.
I would have told my younger son that she was lonely and asked him to talk to her for a while. There is no ignoring my son. And he doesn't shut up. His only off switch is "sleep mode".

See, I knew there was an option that I didn't think of!
Yeah, and if the personalized ones cost more, which is the priority?
Having one person doing the personalization and another person doing the sales would be ideal.
Personalization is included. Pretty much every ornament is meant to be personalized. However the personalization is done with a Sharpie. One of the reasons that I didn't need them to do it, I have my own Sharpie!

I would have thought they would have done the personalization on the spot as each ornament is bought. Ring it up, write on it, bag it, "Happy Holidays", Next Customer.
#4 isn't worthwhile. As long as the tenant is paying the rent, the rest doesn't matter enough to justify pursuing that avenue.
This would be an incorrect assumption. The mall DOES care, and they care a lot. Many malls have very strict rules that their stores have to follow regarding opening and closing and sales hours and will levy fines for any infractions. I believe that in some cases the mall also gets a percentage of sales so that makes them care even more. And they care about customer service and making sure all their shoppers have a good experience. I used to work at a mall information desk and these things were taken very seriously by management.
SO, what did I do? Well I walked off really sort of humored by the whole thing and was just intending to not give them my business. But, DD was disappointed and upset. She really, really wanted that ornament. So that makes this Mom a bit less humored. I had looked around while having the conversation and couldn't find any information available about who owned the kiosk or contact information. I also had no idea if this person was the owner, manager or an employee.
So knowing that it was very likely that Mall Management would care, I went to the office, which was on my way anyway. The ladies in the front office were

when I told them why I was there. I was very

and just asked if they had any contact information for the owner of the kiosk. They called over their person that is in charge of all the kiosk contracts for the mall. She was

. Again, I was very calm and friendly and said I just wanted to let the owner know.
When someone has a complaint, the biggest thing is that they want to feel like someone has heard them and is honestly sorry for what has happened (as we see with the grocery store thread). Well I very much felt heard. She apologized up one side and down the other, which wasn't necessary because it was not the mall's fault. I filled out an official form and she said she would be calling the kiosk owner (who is not in our area) and would also check on the problem herself. As I left the office she followed us out and went straight to the kiosk.
My girls wanted to stay nearby and see what would happen but I told them it would be best for us to move on. When I say we walked away I really meant that my girls walked and I scooted since I use a personal
ECV in daily life. So I am rather easy to remember! I really didn't want to be spotted by this woman after being told someone had complained that she wouldn't sell anything to them. No idea how many people she had turned away in the 15 minutes or so this all took but I so know she would remember me.
What will the outcome be? I have no idea. Hopefully she was told that she couldn't turn customers away and the rest of the day went as it should and that was the end of it. My DD is still upset that she didn't get the kitty ornament she wanted but I have promised we will find an even better one (please send pixie dust that we do!).
If you are offered a free ornament or a gift card, all you have to do is refuse the thing. The may send it anyway, don't use it or send it back. Then you have made your complaint and have not gained anything from it.
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If the owner of the store sent me something then I would most likely use it. But if they don't then I am fine with that, I am absolutely not expecting anything. And I would probably shop there next season. I don't blame the owners for the conduct of their employee if they had no way of knowing about it, and if they make sure that it doesn't happen again. I honestly don't remember this employee's face enough to even know if it would be the same person working today.
If something like service or product were an ongoing problem and complaints had been ignored and management had their heads in the sand then certainly, no amount of gift cards or freebies to entice someone to come back should be used. But I think you have to look at the individual situation and then decide what is in the best interest of you as the consumer. Things happen, and I am always willing to give a business another chance.