Sorry Donna, but remember...
Soon you'll be going to DISNEY!!!!!
I just got off the phone with Mrs. AA with my own in-law gripe.
We are going to see her grandmother and aunts/uncles in Maryland at Thanksgiving. We go every few years.
Realize that all of the children live nearby except for Rebecca's father. He has several children from his 3 wives scattered across the country and globe so it's a whole branch they never see. He doesn't see his parents or children, so Rebecca (Mrs. AA) is the only one from that entire side that has kept a relationship with them.
Now her older brother has expressed an interest in seeing them again (he hasn't since he was a teen) and bringing his wife and 4 kids when we go.
Because he isn't a "detail person" she is taking it upon herself to start making arrangements for them to go with us! Travel, etc.
When she mentioned all of us staying at one aunt's house, I put my foot down and told her we would get a hotel room. There is NO WAY I would put 4 adults, 6 kids and a dog in someone else's house. I look forward to seeing the family and spending time with them, but our time will be cut very short with them there.
I would just prefer they have their "own" visit during another holiday, but Mrs. AA said he wouldn't go without us, and she's the one who is pushing him going in the first place.
Arrrgghhh...I love everyone involved and enjoy spending time with them but not all together!!!