It SO depends on your DD. My best friends and I all got our first AGs when we were between the ages of 8 and 10. Both because of age and personality we all loved and took good care of our dolls and all still have them. I think all of us took those dolls with us to college and our various apartments. Their little sister, on the other hand, got one at age 4 and ... well, it survived her treatment. Barely. I think a lot of it was her age, a lot of it was her not getting how special it was (since, well, it wasn't to her) and her Tasmanian devil personality. I was part of the first wave of girls to get AGs and I knew some who treasured them, some who trashed them, some who ignored them. So a lot of it is which type your DD falls into. For what it's worth, my family didn't have the extra money for expensive doll parts so I made do. Her clothes were genuine AG stuff, received one at a time for Christmas and birthdays, but all her accessories were scrounged up from other stuff. I got my first AG accessories when I was in college. I lived. I would have enjoyed all the accessories my best friends got or the trips to stores and special parties and teas but I also knew it just wasn't in the family budget and that I'd have to buy those things myself. Funny, I didn't want them THAT much! My friends and I put on our own teas and parties and we had a lot of fun with it. So a lot of the expense is what you make of it and what the child understands. Again, I was older so I understood just how expensive the extras were. A younger child might have a harder time. Could you start her off with a less expensive 18" doll and see how she likes it? Granted, it's possible that a girl could love an AG and not another, knowing it's a second-best. So it's still a gamble. Either way, this is one more positive testimonial towards AGs. Hope this helps!