Am I weird?

[crashbb]

You are think of a different poster. I only have 1 child.

Okay. Sorry for the mistake.

 

[PrincessKsMom]

OP you need serious help. This isn't normal. Someone else mentioned you being diagnosed as bi-polar. Please, please, please, see a doctor before this gets out of control. I knew someone who was bi-polar and it wasn't a pretty sight when she rationalized away her behavior. I've seen how bad this can become. You need help, NOW. Even if you feel like what you're feeling and saying isn't wrong, IT IS.

 

[BuffettFan]

We all agree that when you ask a question like this on a message board, that you have to expect some harsh criticism.... However I feel that the OP is really being unjustly bashed.

She asked if it was weird to have a crush on a teenager. Thats all she asked. She didnt ask for all this judgement on her marriage and she wasnt suggesting seducing him.

I have teens, and because of that I always have a house FULL of teens! My friends and I have had more than one conversation about some of the young men around my house.
Perfect example....my daughters boyfriend (who shes been dating for 2 yrs, and I love like a son) works out A LOT, and it shows. We had a pool party over the summer, which included a bunch of my friends. After the kids left, more than one of the "moms" commented on his physique...which led to the conversation that 16 is the legal age for sex in Georgia. (As long as your not in a position of authority with the teen). Inappropriate conversation? Yes. But also funny. It was all in fun, and I still trust these people to be around him. No one was serious...to me it was normal healthy fun.

I think thats more what the OP was talking about....just a fun little crush!
Everyone else took it the extra mile!

 

[Kathi OD]

Never thought that I would find myself laughing at something so creepy (and let there be no doubt about it, the scenario described by OP is waaay creepy), but this thread certainly did it for me!

 

[Scurvy]

OP you need serious help. This isn't normal. Someone else mentioned you being diagnosed as bi-polar. Please, please, please, see a doctor before this gets out of control. I knew someone who was bi-polar and it wasn't a pretty sight when she rationalized away her behavior. I've seen how bad this can become. You need help, NOW. Even if you feel like what you're feeling and saying isn't wrong, IT IS.

I have to admit I was finding this thread hilarious in sort of a "Jerry Springer" way, and the OP's refusal to see anything wrong with what she was saying and doing was so shocking that it was funny. I totally won't be surprised when/if the OP posts one of the "Help, I'm getting a divorce!" threads. But if the bolded is true, then the thread isn't funny - it's just sad. There isn't anything funny about something like mental illness, especially when there's a child involved.

OP, I hope things work out well for you and for your family.