I agree with the OP. I know it is all relative and what is expensive to one is not to another. But for my family, we have been priced out of the park. I might feel differently if we were a smaller family, but we are soon to be a family of 7. In 2005, I was able to take the whole family (of 6) with 7 day park hoppers and stay at ASMo in 2 connecting rooms (which was plenty of space) and paid for the Dining Plan as we had to go 3 weeks before
free dining started and it cost me $2400.
I was also able to go from a wed. to a wed. to get cheap airfare on SW and our RT tickets were $98 each. So the entire vacation was $3000. This was still a splurge for us as we usually spend under $2500 for a beach vacation - but I felt the extra money was well worth it as it was DISNEY WORLD and the free dining was fabulous back then with all of us including kids being able to order appetizers and desserts at each dinner and it inclluded tips. It was one of the best vacations we ever had.
Now, I check and check and check the prices and sales, a free dining - and just can't ever see us being able to afford to stay on site again.