she has been there since the last week of Aug.. this is Nov..
I do agree with you on the high cost of living there, I warned her about going. She graduated in May. She went out to California for the summer and her serving job transferred her to their place there. She looked for work there from May to then end of Aug, she went onto Hawaii.. She is giving it till Jan/Feb she said.. it ran her $2000 to ship her car over there and she doesn't want to "run" home yet. It will cost her $4000 to ship it home
One of the places she applied to did call her today.. I am not thrilled. They called and offered her a position that was different than what she interviewed for.. The Ghirardelli Chocolate Company called her and offered her a position in one of their stores.

She interviewed for an HR position

They told her after the holidays they would put her into their management training program, and she would have room for advancement....

still not what she applied for.. She said she was going to consider it since that was all she was offered so far. She is keeping her serving job at PF Chang's with the hopes if anything opens up in their HR department, she can go there, beside the fact, the money she makes serving is going to help out since the pay won't be what she thought it was going to be at Ghirardelli's since she'll be in a store.
Personally, I think she is there because her boyfriend is there (I think I put this in my other post). He is a Navy Seal and is going to be deployed soon for Afghanistan. I don't think she would have gone there had he not been there. I think she would have stayed in California longer, gone to New York (where we have family & I think would have been her best bet) or come home here to FL. Where we are in Fl, there are no jobs.. but she could have gone to Miami, Tampa and Orlando..even Jacksonville.... Orlando..

would have been the best for me..

then I wouldn't have to pay for a hotel when I went up... but on a serious note.. I do agree, Hawaii is a very expensive place to live.. She isn't complaining about the cost of living though. She is working two jobs (both as a server) and getting by. Not what I like to see her doing, but she is working and not living or sponging off of anyone... and has no loans to repay..
and yes, I do remember you had to move.. you were down here.. weren't you on the East Coast of Fl?? Hey, I ended up down here in FL from NY 20 years ago this November because my DH was transferred down by his job.. but that was a real easy move for me to make..

I was more willing to go than he was