bababear_50
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I used to get pushback from DH about travel. What I learned was to not ask if he wanted to go on holiday, I say 'I'm going to (fill in the blank), if you would like to come let me know'. He knows I mean it so he just nods his head and asks when we will be leaving.Okay I need to rant about something COMPLETELY off topic here in our little safe place.
DH has refused the vaccine and all along falls in line with the theories of Covid = flu, etc, vaccine isn't required, etc.
I listen, nod, agree to some stuff, and essentially "put up" with his chatter for the last 1.5 years.
He knows I am itching to travel. To him on a good day, travel is spending money we could be using for something better (i.e. house, savings, etc).
Today, I was talking with his mom about how Royal Caribbean is offering PCR tests to Canadians so they can return home. He shoots out of the gate with how selfish I would be to travel risking that I could get covid, then need to spend money to quarantine, etc.
I'm like "Wait. Aren't you the same person who has been promoting "living life" as covid is nothing, etc etc etc"?
I just can't catch a break with this guy. He is definitely the fun police on any given day in my life who is el' cheapo to the max. The only way I ever get to travel without pushback is if I invite his mother. Then he relents. But if I want to travel with MY parents/family, oh boy, forget about it.
Sorry, I just really needed to type this out to someone. It's so frustrating and unfair.
Do the Bonus Boom miles all post on the same day? This is the first time I've done the promotion on 2 different cards and the miles only posted to my account (not my daughter's)
I'm still missing the BMO Bonus Boom miles from June. It is the spend $350, get 150 AM's I think.
Anyone else still missing this?
I used to get pushback from DH about travel. What I learned was to not ask if he wanted to go on holiday, I say 'I'm going to (fill in the blank), if you would like to come let me know'. He knows I mean it so he just nods his head and asks when we will be leaving.
Early on in my marriage, I've been married for a century, I learned that I needed me time. I can remember having so much on my shoulders, which I won't get into, that I sat on the end of our bed and cried like a baby. I told him I had to get away and I was going alone. DH knew it had nothing to do with him, just things I was trying to handle and couldn't. He told me to plan it and he would stay and watch our two boys. Ended up in the Bahamas and loved every second. I needed it. After that I often would take a weekend trip into the 'big city' by myself and have been known to go to WDW by myself just to catch my breath.
Long story short, if you need a vacation try and just plan it. DH may be mad but he'll get over it. Your sanity might be at stake and that is more important than hurt feelings. Of course I'm doing some presumptions here so if I'm out of line, only you know your circumstance, I apologize. We are all different people, what works for me might not work for others.
Wishing you all the best.
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75 |
AIR MILES® Bonus Miles |
when you spend $50 or more on your BMO AIR MILES Mastercard at one of the participating Partners below by July 26, 2021.1 |
Mine is 75 for a $50 spend at Global Pet Foods, Staples or Budget. Don't shop at any of them so not even going to activate it.Well lets hope there are some half decent offers at Sobeys Or Foodland this week.
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That's a great offer....me...I get 20 if I spend $160Well lets hope there are some half decent offers at Sobeys Or Foodland this week.
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Get
75
AIR MILES® Bonus Miles
when you spend $50 or more on your
BMO AIR MILES Mastercard at one of the participating Partners below by
July 26, 2021.1
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