airline seat question

PRINCESS VIJA

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I am sure this is probably very silly, but I was wondering about this, please don't laugh!

On our flight we have 3 x 3 seating. DH is sitting on the aisle while the kids and I are taking up the 3 seats across the aisle. (so far) no one is sitting next to DH. If no one shows up, can DH move to any of the seats next to him, and could one of my kids go across the aisle to sit with him, or is this against the rules?

Thanks!
 
yes, won't be a problem moving around if there are empty seats. If you are in regular coach though you can not move up to first class seats.
 
yes, won't be a problem moving around if there are empty seats. If you are in regular coach though you can not move up to first class seats.

Also, on United you would not be allowed to move from regular coach to an economy plus seat.
 
I wouldn't count on those seats staying open. I travel alot, it seems like anytime I see that there are empty seats next to me they end up being filled by flight time. Alot of time I check if there are better seats available when I check-in and move.
 

If they are open you can use them. Not a problem.
 
1. Watch for the airplane door to be closed and at that moment DH quickly slides over and the one of you in the other aisle seat jumps across the aisle Also the one of you originally in the middle moves to the empty aisle seat so you now occupy middle(DH)-aisle-aisle-empty-window. After takeoff and the seat belt sign goes off, then switch to the exact seats you want.

2. Take a chance and DH sits in the middle seat that is not his, one of you sit in DH's aisle seat, and the other two sit aisle-window across from DH. If someone claims the middle seat from DH then move back to your correct positions.
 
2. Take a chance and DH sits in the middle seat that is not his, one of you sit in DH's aisle seat, and the other two sit aisle-window across from DH. If someone claims the middle seat from DH then move back to your correct positions.

For the love of all things chocolate please do not take this advice. It is VERY annoying when people just decide to take your seat.

OP - why don't you just move one of your kids now? If no one is sitting in those seats beside your husband, you should be able to move to middle/aisle-aisle/middle now.
 
This from the Archie Bunker School of Travel



2. Take a chance and DH sits in the middle seat that is not his, one of you sit in DH's aisle seat, and the other two sit aisle-window across from DH. If someone claims the middle seat from DH then move back to your correct positions.
 
For the love of all things chocolate please do not take this advice. It is VERY annoying when people just decide to take your seat.

Absolutely agree. If I find someone already in my seat and they ask to switch there is NO WAY I allow it. If they asked to switch BEFORE sitting in my seat there is a chance I would actually switch.
 
Absolutely agree. If I find someone already in my seat and they ask to switch there is NO WAY I allow it. If they asked to switch BEFORE sitting in my seat there is a chance I would actually switch.


I agree! Most flights fly full now anyway. In fact, on the last several flights I've been on they've asked for volunteers to be bumped or if not there are people on a wait list trying to get on the flight.
 
For the love of all things chocolate please do not take this advice.
Agreed, heartily, if the seat you are about to steal is an aisle or a window.

You can always pretend to be ignorant and in this case the OP's family wasn't going to put up any fuss about immediately moving back to their original positions.

Now if you loved chocolate so much you might experience the following:

You sat in your original positions to begin with and one person comes up to take the window seat on the far side of DH. That person immediately drops his laptop bag, coat, etc. in the middle seat and nobody else comes to claim said seat. Now you are locked out from seating your kid next to DH.
 
Agreed, heartily, if the seat you are about to steal is an aisle or a window.

You can always pretend to be ignorant and in this case the OP's family wasn't going to put up any fuss about immediately moving back to their original positions.

Now if you loved chocolate so much you might experience the following:

You sat in your original positions to begin with and one person comes up to take the window seat on the far side of DH. That person immediately drops his laptop bag, coat, etc. in the middle seat and nobody else comes to claim said seat. Now you are locked out from seating your kid next to DH.

Nope, I still think you are wrong. I don't care how willingly the seat stealer will move - they are still a jerk seat stealer. If nobody claimed the seat, the DH is fully in his right to ask that the person in the window seat if they would mind moving their coat/bag (which, for the record, cannot be there for take off anyway) and move to that seat.

In any case, the DH was "locked" from sitting next to his child by the OP choosing the seats that she did. If they are lucky and can switch around that would be great. But is a bonus. The person in the window seat has just as much right to the "extra" seat (in most situations, I would plan in sharing the seat for things like papers/laptop bags. This this situation, I'd have no problem moving my stuff and letting the OP's family rearrange themselves).

In other words, I still think your advice is bad advice. Pretending to be ignorant makes you just that - ignorant.
 
Agreed, heartily, if the seat you are about to steal is an aisle or a window.

You can always pretend to be ignorant and in this case the OP's family wasn't going to put up any fuss about immediately moving back to their original positions.

Now if you loved chocolate so much you might experience the following:

You sat in your original positions to begin with and one person comes up to take the window seat on the far side of DH. That person immediately drops his laptop bag, coat, etc. in the middle seat and nobody else comes to claim said seat. Now you are locked out from seating your kid next to DH.

Sorry, but what you are suggesting is not a good idea. My last flight the FAs were insisting that everyone be in the seat they were assigned to before they would close the door. Apparently a few people were not where they were supposed to be. The lady next to me was in the wrong seat, because someone else was in her seat. It was a mess.
 
seashoreCM said:
Agreed, heartily, if the seat you are about to steal is an aisle or a window.
You can always pretend to be ignorant and in this case the OP's family wasn't going to put up any fuss about immediately moving back to their original positions.
Self-explanatory. Air travel is stressful enough without acquiring a seat one did not reserve.

seashoreCM said:
You sat in your original positions to begin with and one person comes up to take the window seat on the far side of DH. That person immediately drops his laptop bag, coat, etc. in the middle seat and nobody else comes to claim said seat. Now you are locked out from seating your kid next to DH.
If the OP wants that seat for a member of her party, the OP should reserve that seat for a member of her party. Period.
 
Personally I would reserve as follow Children in window seats, parents in aisle seats with the open middle. If the flight happens to go out less than full then your family has two rows of comfy seating. If the middle person happens to just show up they will happily switch for an aisle or window and you still have great seats.

I also like a child with each parent so that each adult can help a child in case of emergency.
 
I ran into an interesting situation a few years back going out to LV. I was meeting a group of girls who had all met on the internet. I was traveling with two other girls who lived in the DC area (I live in DE), so we all met up at BWI.

We booked the three seats together in the front of the coach aisle, because they were both very tall. I mean very tall. As we were waiting to board, the gate agent called us up to the podium. They asked us if we would mind trading our seats with a nice newlywed couple that couldn't get seated together. We said absolutely not, we booked those seats weeks before for a reason, because of their height. The gate attendant said, no problem.

Lo and behold, we get into the plane and they are our first two seats, the window and the center seats. The aisle and window seat behind us were vacant. They just wanted to move up one row to get the leg room and sit next to each other (instead of asking the middle seat to switch). We were arguing with them as they were sitting in our seats, and they said, no, the gate agent told us we could move to these seats. Since we were the last row to board, we are now surrounded by flight attendants who were about to throw US off the plan for refusing to sit in our seats......while they were allowed to remain seated in ours. The flight attendant said if we did not sit in our seats and stop arguing with the nice young couple, we would be thrown off and had to book another flight at our own expense. I was almost in tears. Thank goodness, Nia kept her cool and she very nicely showed our seat assignments to the one flight attendant who decided to listen to us.

She asked the couple what made them think they could take any seat they wanted, and they said the gate attendant told them they could have them. The flight attendant told them it was an outright lie, because the gate attendants are not allowed to re-assign seats unless they are available. She apologized to us, and told the newlywed couple they had ten seconds to move to their original seats or would be removed from the plane....
 
Ok, for a variety of reasons we don't want to book the seats differently at this time. I wasn't planning on switching seats until after take off, so I am not going to jump into anyone else's seat. Thanks for the info.:thumbsup2
 
Ok, for a variety of reasons we don't want to book the seats differently at this time. I wasn't planning on switching seats until after take off, so I am not going to jump into anyone else's seat. Thanks for the info.:thumbsup2

Go ahead and move once the doors are closed (i.e. no more people are getting on board), you don't have to wait until after take-off. Just wait until everyone is on board (you can ask the FA if you are unsure).
 


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