I know how bad your time was wasted. I've been there, you see, we went to Dw this past December and I decided that since my wheelchair wasn't delivered to me before we left, that we would just rent a motorized chair there. Of course, rentals are handled with vendors outside of WD. I won't get into it all, but we lost 2 1/2 days of me going without any "working" chair, no one would even give me a credit break until my next visit, lol, my lil one had to go off with other relatives, and I sat around waiting and waiting. It is hard to fathom.
We had tons of problems with DW themselves. We had lost packages by the hotel (one of which we didn't receive until 2 months later they finally tracked it), We had lunch reservations with the new baby einstein and jojo circus characters. Our reservation for lunch was at 2. Of course no one told us that they leave at 2, because they have to be in the parade.....UGHHH what's the point in paying extra, telling us to come at 2, when they know the characters leave at that time--needless to say, this made me see smoke circles come from my head. I was lied to in dtd christmas store, just to charge me more, until I complained with the manager, and the horrible moments go on and on.
but sometimes we have to think of how large of a crowd they do service. Also understand that nothing is perfect, especially computer systems. I also have to admit that after going to dW 6 times prior, I must say the last trip was the only one with problems.
It hurts even more, when you don't just have the money to go there any time soon, but look into using the free stuff they gave you. I pray that some day you and the family can go back and try it again, I'm sure you'd love it if you have a good time, which actually does happen!
I'm so sorry to hear about your son!!!