My first Disney trip was to DL, early 60s, summer. No FP. No wait time apps. No cellphones to coordinate. No Unofficial Guide. Nada.
To be honest, I don't remember what the waits were like, maybe they were 10 minutes, maybe they were an hour, maybe more. But we did that because that's what you did to see things. I do remember on subsequent trips pretty long lines for the submarine ride and autopia/tomorrowland speedway, perhaps because we used up the less crowded times for the Matterhorn or SM. We'd do our best to work around the busy times, but waits were inevitable.
Honestly, you'd think that waiting in line talking with friends and family was worse torture than going to the dentist. Yeah, the humidity in FL is worse than CA. And while some of the rides have really good wait areas, many don't. But you still get to hang out with friends and family, people watch, sip on the drink you got before getting on line, anticipate the ride and argue over whether you want the front or back of the BTMR train.
I'm not saying that you shouldn't be doing as much as you can to minimize wait times, I certainly do. But patience and waiting seem to be lost skills, to everyones disadvantage.
Oh my goodness --what an excellent point!!! thank you for sharing that perspective!
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