I guess one of the best things to do is look at some of the
YouTube videos that do ship tours and all the activity's aboard the ship based on the cruise you are interested in.
My wife and I just got off the Fantasy yesterday after a seven day Western Caribbean cruise. This was our tenth trip on the Fantasy so we knew what to expect.
My mom came with us and this was her first
Disney cruise in over twenty years. She found watching YouTube videos very helpful in planning what she wanted to do.
Are you staying at a Disney resort?
Are you flying or driving? If flying and you do not get a rental car, Disney has transportation It's resorts to the port that make it convenient to get there however their is a charge for the service and you have to make reservations to use the service. Also, if flying do not book an early flight going home the same day as the cruise.
Book it in the afternoon or next day some times the ship does not always get back on time based on a whole host of factors. On a cruise several years ago we were still waiting to get off the ship when in the past we were already home by that time, we live about a hour and a half away from the port.
We do not have kids so I can't answer much about the kids clubs other than what we have seen is most kids love going to them.
Are you using a
travel agent or booking on your own? There are benefits to both?
Have you decided on a type of room you want?
Are you or any of your family prone to motion sickness?
If you have any special needs dietary or other Disney can accommodate just about anything but you have to let them know in advance and can do it as part of your booking.
Your question is pretty open ended, so if you have specific concerns or questions we can all help you better knowing what they are. sounds like a great trip.