shoney
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 4, 2005
Our wedding was adults only back in 1992. (I know my parents wedding was also adults only back in the 60's) We used 18 and over as the cut off.
My ds14 has been to 2 weddings and ds12 has been to 1:
1. my uncle's second marriage. Originally kids were not invited. A person on her side put a big stink about it and they were invited with their baby. My uncle then said..."well then kids on my side are invited too". My oldest was 7 and we took him with us. He was exhausted and we couldn't wait for cake to be served so we could leave! We left his little brother home with my cousin...should have left both of them!!! This was a large formal event. The ceremony was at 6:30 at the reception hall followed by the cocktail hour, then 4 hour reception.
2. they were both invited to my SIL's second marriage. It was during the day and not the standard formal event. 100 people at a restaurant private room for buffet lunch....no cocktail hour, no dj, etc...
Most of the weddings I have attended have been adults only.
I really don't know anyone personally who has had an issue with it.
My ds14 has been to 2 weddings and ds12 has been to 1:
1. my uncle's second marriage. Originally kids were not invited. A person on her side put a big stink about it and they were invited with their baby. My uncle then said..."well then kids on my side are invited too". My oldest was 7 and we took him with us. He was exhausted and we couldn't wait for cake to be served so we could leave! We left his little brother home with my cousin...should have left both of them!!! This was a large formal event. The ceremony was at 6:30 at the reception hall followed by the cocktail hour, then 4 hour reception.
2. they were both invited to my SIL's second marriage. It was during the day and not the standard formal event. 100 people at a restaurant private room for buffet lunch....no cocktail hour, no dj, etc...
Most of the weddings I have attended have been adults only.
I really don't know anyone personally who has had an issue with it.