My cousins adopted a boy and girl from the Holt Agency, I think they have an office in Trenton, NJ, or somewhere in NJ. But they do have some rules unless they changed, don't quote me, but I think for Korea its 40 and under and if you have a second marriage it must be 5 years, my cousins had to wait a while as it was her second marriage, first guy left her because of the baby issue. I think CED mom in NJ could help you too. Hope she sees this thread. At Holt, the first child you cannot have a preference for, boy or girl, but if you adopt a second child you can. They will bring the babies to the us with an escort. It was alot of paperwork but they sent her pictures etc. She also goes to a picnic each year in nj which a korean church sponsors with all the holt kids and I think she goes to another holt event. She says its great for all the parents and kids to be together. Good luck and God Bless, the long journey will definetly be worth it. She did go the private route but no one picked them. I think because of their careers and modest home. But now they are blessed with 2 adorable kids.
