I'm like Barkley I am in awe of people who do it, y'all how it down pat really. And yes to the stigma that's the initial reason I commented.
About the vacations part totally! Well I should say it's more like the points have allowed us to take vacations we otherwise wouldn't not because of "we can't afford" but because it allowed our discretionary income to go farther which I think for some that aspect gets lost in the conversation. That was really was my intention when I made the comment that shall be known as making the thread go south

the CCs themselves aren't the problem, people's spending habits are, but the CCs especially with really good points and benefits are really good for allowing trips that people look sideways at other taking. I know we could take even more trips if we got into the churning game but we aren't presently speaking. I can't fault you for taking stock of what you get out of it and using it to its fullest
And just like DLgal with her military benefits that affect her family's situation with my household the fact that my husband traveled for almost 2 years (non-consecutively but for large chunks of time each time) for work had amassed SWA points which has means we haven't paid for a plane ticket in quite a while despite traveling exclusively with SWA. I've been very blunt about that factoid in other conversations because it has meant opportunities for trips that wouldn't have occurred.
- So in 2013 we got the Delta Amex for the honeymoon that got us money off flights (plus no foreign transaction fees which was important). In 2016 we used it for 1 ticket for Hawaii and I've mentioned multiple times on the Board we always thought Hawaii was out of our reach but we did the points for 1 ticket (RT I should say) and then did a FlipKey for rent by owner condo for a week and we loved it
- In 2016 my husband was traveling for work and after accruing points he looked and discussed with me getting the SWA CC to then earn the Companion Pass (back then 110K points) so we did that. We traveled to Disney, Vegas (well I tagged along to his work trip), NYC (also a work trip) with that Companion Pass.
- In 2022 my husband got the Chase Sapphire Reserve card which has been very very helpful to us for this upcoming cruise. The travel benefits are great and this one is where the benefits are going to be the most on a cycle level with the purchasing-points earned carrying onto future trips.
- In 2023 my husband got the Chase Freedom card (the free one) to bridge the gap in benefits the Reserve card doesn't get. We didn't even think about this until we had that discussion with our DISer friend regarding getting multiple cards to bridge those gaps.