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DD7 was diagnosed with the above when she was 3/4. At that time she had a huge amount of intervention/support/therapy. The therapy/intervention slowed down around age 5 since she was progressing so well academically and socially. Currently she in a main stream grade 2 class and has in class support for about 40% of the day (reduced from 100% last year). She is on an IEP for behaviour (not academics) and receives a combination of As and Bs on her report cards. She is progressing so well that in fact this year the teacher has no idea what she will write on her IEP progress report since she has had NO behaviour challenges whatsoever this year and acadmecially says she is near the top of the class. But she says she will write "something"so she won't lose her EA (in class) support.
This is the same kid who was by age 3/4 diagnosed with developmental delays, severe ADHD, ASD and SID tendencies, infant bulima and anorexia, failure to thrive baby etc. etc.
Two questions:
1. My DH says he wants a full re-assessment on her since he feels that she does not fit into any of these diagnoses anymore and I feel that we should just leave things as they are in order to keep getting the support from the school . I don't know if she would still fit all of the current diagnoses but it is obvious to me that she is very different then other kids in a lot of ways. Has anyone ever been in the same situation (had kids diagnosed at very young age and then the kid doesn't seem to quite fit the diagnoses anymore). I know she definately has some sort of hyperactivity disorder but I don't know what. She still also occasionally flaps her hands (maybe once a month when she is VERY excited) so maybe the ASD tendencies is still there, I don't know.
2. My only real concern with her now is that most of the time she is REALLY HYPER (has seen this since birth) and when she is her heart RACES. You know the hyper I'm talking about: can't sit still, fidgits, can't talk properly since talking so fast, just plain WOUND UP. I had her to the doctor for a checkup today (first time in two years ) and the doctor couldn't believe she was the same child (DD sat and read the doctor a book that was at least two grade levels above her age, this is the same doctor that told us years ago we may never be able to toilet train her since she was so developmentally delayed). btw, she was trained by age 3.5.
The doctor ordered an ECG (I hope that this is right, you know the heart test) and we will get the results next week. btw, when she was born she had to be delivered with a vaccuum extractor since she was in fetal distress (rapid heart rate) and had to stay in special nursery for a few days due to the high heart rate.
Has anyone with ADHD kids ever had a problem with rapid heart rate with their child. And if so, what did you do about it? We have started yoga nightly to try and calm her down a bit, plus massages but so far I don't see a change. We just started this recently though so I will definately give it more time. Also we play a lot of "calming"music (nature sounds, ocean etc. ) But the kid is just WIRED most of the time (as is her father)
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Sorry so long.
Suzy V.
This is the same kid who was by age 3/4 diagnosed with developmental delays, severe ADHD, ASD and SID tendencies, infant bulima and anorexia, failure to thrive baby etc. etc.
Two questions:
1. My DH says he wants a full re-assessment on her since he feels that she does not fit into any of these diagnoses anymore and I feel that we should just leave things as they are in order to keep getting the support from the school . I don't know if she would still fit all of the current diagnoses but it is obvious to me that she is very different then other kids in a lot of ways. Has anyone ever been in the same situation (had kids diagnosed at very young age and then the kid doesn't seem to quite fit the diagnoses anymore). I know she definately has some sort of hyperactivity disorder but I don't know what. She still also occasionally flaps her hands (maybe once a month when she is VERY excited) so maybe the ASD tendencies is still there, I don't know.
2. My only real concern with her now is that most of the time she is REALLY HYPER (has seen this since birth) and when she is her heart RACES. You know the hyper I'm talking about: can't sit still, fidgits, can't talk properly since talking so fast, just plain WOUND UP. I had her to the doctor for a checkup today (first time in two years ) and the doctor couldn't believe she was the same child (DD sat and read the doctor a book that was at least two grade levels above her age, this is the same doctor that told us years ago we may never be able to toilet train her since she was so developmentally delayed). btw, she was trained by age 3.5.
The doctor ordered an ECG (I hope that this is right, you know the heart test) and we will get the results next week. btw, when she was born she had to be delivered with a vaccuum extractor since she was in fetal distress (rapid heart rate) and had to stay in special nursery for a few days due to the high heart rate.
Has anyone with ADHD kids ever had a problem with rapid heart rate with their child. And if so, what did you do about it? We have started yoga nightly to try and calm her down a bit, plus massages but so far I don't see a change. We just started this recently though so I will definately give it more time. Also we play a lot of "calming"music (nature sounds, ocean etc. ) But the kid is just WIRED most of the time (as is her father)
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Sorry so long.
Suzy V.