I just celebrated my b'day there last week. I noted it on all of my online ressies.
I did note it on my ressie at the Wilderness Lodge, so I thought i might get a button upon check in. I didn't, but I asked a CM for one a little later in the day and got it.
Garden Grill - got a little b'day dessert cake thingy (not a cupcake, but same size) with a candle and a signed card from all the characters
CRT - got the same type of dessert cake thingy and a signed card
Chef Mickey's - got a cupcake
Le Cellier - decorated my choclate mousse (sp?) for my b'day
I also got the mickey birthday card with the photopass discount card the first night there in the hotel room when we got back.
Also, most of the characters we met recognized it in some way.
Lots of CMs would wish me a happy birthday, too.
These were all little things, but they were exactly what I wanted. I got some really cute souvies, and people were so cheery. It was a lot of fun, and we had a great time. It is my favorite birthday I have had, and I am so glad I got to go!
They didn't make a huge public deal about it (I was glad), so I don't think they are likely to do anything to embarrass (sp?) your husband.
