I truly don't mean to be offensive to anyone. Please don't take this thread that way. But when my kids were younger it seemed like all the kids were being diagonosed ADD or ADHD. Now, all the kids are being diagonosed Asperger's. Is Asperger's the new ADD or ADHD?
I do have one child with many problems. I almost think if he was younger he would be diagonosed with Asperger's but who knows. His main thing is dsylexia which I had to fight for 5 years to get him tested and that was finally done when he was a sophmore at 17. He slipped through the cracks many times. His 4th grade teacher didn't even try to teach him his mulitplication tables. Didn't even try. We didn't realize it until the following year when the next two came home from 4th grade with these one minute tests. He never in his entire school career did a book report or project. Not once. His next biggest problem was that he had no common sense. But the only labels they actually ever gave him were "Learning disabled".
We live in one area code and most family live within 30 minutes of us but with a different area code. We could never get him to learn our area code. He kept thinking we had theirs. He also had trouble learning our address. He could get the house number or the street number but not both. He never uses puncutation. He starts writing and that's it. It's all one big sentence. I used to get so frustruated. Why would English teachers put up with this? But he wouldn't have graduated if they hadn't. But any other child would have been made to redo papers like his.
Back to topic. Why are so many kids these days diagonosed Asperger's vs ADD or ADHD?
I do have one child with many problems. I almost think if he was younger he would be diagonosed with Asperger's but who knows. His main thing is dsylexia which I had to fight for 5 years to get him tested and that was finally done when he was a sophmore at 17. He slipped through the cracks many times. His 4th grade teacher didn't even try to teach him his mulitplication tables. Didn't even try. We didn't realize it until the following year when the next two came home from 4th grade with these one minute tests. He never in his entire school career did a book report or project. Not once. His next biggest problem was that he had no common sense. But the only labels they actually ever gave him were "Learning disabled".
We live in one area code and most family live within 30 minutes of us but with a different area code. We could never get him to learn our area code. He kept thinking we had theirs. He also had trouble learning our address. He could get the house number or the street number but not both. He never uses puncutation. He starts writing and that's it. It's all one big sentence. I used to get so frustruated. Why would English teachers put up with this? But he wouldn't have graduated if they hadn't. But any other child would have been made to redo papers like his.
Back to topic. Why are so many kids these days diagonosed Asperger's vs ADD or ADHD?

Our older dd does swim team, so we were there several days a week. Each time, I'd let Zoe look at teh fence for a few minutes, then pick her up and bring her to where other kids were swimming, and playing with toys. I've gradually got her to where she'll be near other children, and very occasionally will respond to another child. However, the other child always has to initiate the contact.
But none of those things would have been possible if we hadn't "shoved pills down her throat" so her brain would slow down long enough to learn.
). Even with a weighted vest she was impulsive and almost always on the move. My greatest fear was always her safety because she would just bolt without warning. She nearly was hit by a car in front of our house because I chatted with a neighbor a moment too long. I always had to have a death grip on her. At her IEP meeting we were gently nudged by the team to take her back to the neurologist for further evaluation. Thankfully we listened and did it. I don't think that most doctors will diagnose very young children but I would certainly look into how ADHD and autism work together if you are concerned. I had no idea three years ago.