You seem reluctant to register your DD for the kid's club. I'm not sure why, or perhaps I am reading it wrong. We went as a large family group with my two sisters one with two daughters and one with three.
One of my sisters had just gone through a divorce and her two daughters had become quite clingy and both insisted that they would never go to the kid's club. My sister told them that they didn't have to go but that they were going to register. She registered them both the first night. As it turned out a day later, one of her daughter's changed her mind after hearing about the activities and wanted to go, so no problem she was all registered. The younger daughter never did go, but she was registered just in case. Just because you register, doesn't mean you have to go.