We did our first family trip to WDW last summer, with 2 boys, who were 14 months old and 3 and a half years old at the time we went. We did a 5-night trip. We had the basic
DDP. We did one TS dinner every day. Our dinners were:
1. Liberty Tree Tavern at MK (had characters back then, but no more)
2. Biergarten in Germany at Epcot
3. 1900 Park Fare at Grand Floridian (characters)
4. Boma at Animal Kingdom Lodge
5. Crystal Palace at MK (characters)
We paid for 2 breakfasts OOP. They were:
1. Hollywood & Vine at DHS (Playhouse Disney characters)
2. Chef Mickey's at Contemporary (classic Mickey characters) (on our last morning just before leaving, was a nice end to our trip)
So, overall we did 5 character meals and all went well. We kept to their regular eating schedules for all meals. I made our ADRs all between 5:00 pm and 6:15 pm because that is the normal time range we eat dinner on a daily basis. We had breakfast in the room in the morning when we did not go to a character breakfast. We would have cereal or cereal bars, milk, and DH and I brought a hot pot to make coffee, with Folgers singles. We used our CS credits for lunch each day, always between 11 am and noon, my sons' normal lunch time. And we used our snack credits throughout the trip to sample various items. Some were Mickey ice cream bars or ice cream sandwiches, HUGE cinnamon rolls from Main Street Bakery at MK (a must-try!), Dole whip; chocolate mousse in France at Epcot, etc.
We did not do any of the night time parades or fireworks. We were able to see the higher Epcot fireworks from our room window at Pop Century, so I allowed my older son to stay up to see it when it began at 9PM, then we all went to bed (we were exhausted anyway!). We also got to the parks very early, well before rope drop (maybe there were 2 or 3 families in line ahead of us when we arrived at the park). We left each park between 1 and 2 pm each day and had seen everything we wanted to see with the kids by then. We took a nice break in the room, then went back to the park if we had an ADR, or we did not go back to the park if our dinner ADR was in a resort restaurant. All worked out well.
Hope this all helps, and I hope you enjoy your trip! I know we sure did last summer...so much that we bought a
DVC membership at BWV after deciding we want to take the kids to DIsney every other year as they grow up and stay a nice long 10 nights each time! We are teachers so we have the summer off and certainly have enough time to have long trips!