I know we have to be reasonable and all, but my philiosophy on money is that I'd rather spend it on things that create great memories for my kids than on unnecessary things at the house or just saving it all.
My dad died from cancer when he had just turned 50, and he worked right up until the day he went in the hospital, never to return home. He never got to see retirement, to have time just to relax, and to enjoy all that he had worked for. That event, along with Trent's near death experience just before his graduation, made me have somewhat of a new perspective on taking advantage of opportunities to create memories.
I'd rather spend it on the kids while I can see them enjoying it rather than them just have money after I'm gone. I'd rather Brooklynn remember fun times with MeMom rather than the fact that MeMom had new carpet or whatever. That may not be popular with many, but it is the way I see it. I have a retirement plan through school, and I'm pretty low maintenance. I'll spend wisely, other than my Disney stuff, which isn't always so wise, and save wisely, and hopefully it will all come out well.
I don't get into credit card debt, and I'm glad to hear you're being wise about that now. It's nice that you have a good job at a young age.
Sorry to hear that you won't be coming up on the 28th, but the offer still stands, as we do have three extra seats as of now. I'll be happy to treat you guys to supper. If it works out in the weeks ahead, let me know.