A Short but Not Sweet Trip Review *12-1 Pre-Trip Report Link

Well today is kind of a milestone.... 3 whole weeks since surgery (seems like it's been longer though) AND 1 month since this all began.....Right about NOW... lol 1 month ago I was calling housekeeping. It's absolutely crazy how time works. It seems like it was years ago that all of that happened and yet time flew by?! Cassidy is doing wonderful. She's gained 4ish pounds since leaving the hospital. She's running around like absolutely nothing happened. The big test will be a week from today - she will have her MRI to tell us what's going on INSIDE that little belly of hers. I have high hopes, however. That's all I can have. Emotions are starting to bubble to the surface now. It's really amazing how many emotions one person can have at once. Relief, fear, hope, joy, frustration, sadness, terror, and peace. ALL AT ONCE! lol This is what happens sometimes when I watch her sleep. In other news, you may have noticed my ticker. Yay! I think. lol I'm still not sure how to feel. Part of me feels ridiculously selfish - like we don't deserve to go to Disney - we got our miracle - Cassidy is well. Part of me can't wait! Part of me is worried that it's the right thing to do financially - my eyes have been opened as to how quickly things can change. Part of me is worried what other people will think. BUT. Bottom line is that we discussed it and it's really important to our family to finish our trip. Those 12 days we spend in September at Disney aren't just 12 days at some amusement park. Those days are the days where the 5 of us remember why we love each other so gosh darn much. (At home sometimes it's easier to forget) They are the days where we all smile till our face hurts and we put away our laptops and email. We eat too much ice cream and then eat some more. It's where we take all of the pictures that we will pull out someday and look at and be so glad we took them. It's where Daddy takes his little girls out to dinner in a castle and where the boy and I go on dates and share a sundae and a movie on the beach. It's where the girls and I will have Afternoon Tea in our best clothes, while the boys eat chili dogs. It's where I don't have anything to do BUT listen and talk and enjoy. It's the place where I'm the mom I want to be all the time, but sometimes the stress of life gets in the way. It's the place that we are a family the best. So on January the 23rd (a little nervous - DH and I went January 2000 this same time and it was a ghost town, but I know that's not the case anymore) we will be heading down on our unused SW tickets and staying at the Cabins at Fort Wilderness. We've stayed there 1 night last trip and really liked it. We're going to Tea, getting silhouettes done, taking a MILLION pictures, having "make-up" birthday breakfast in the castle, and a lot of other amazing things. So I leave you with my answer to all of the people that I am too afraid to tell that we are going back AGAIN. (and then again in September for our annual....lol) Have I gone Mad? I'm afraid so. You're entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret.... All the best people are.

First of all, I am so glad Cassidy is doing well. I will pray for more good news next week at your follow up. Second of all, I am soooo glad you are going back in January. Your post above summarizes my feelings exactly. I hope you make some really great memories to help ease the sting from Seotember!
 
I'm so glad she is doing well! I hope you get to go again soon! You need a do over!
 
Love seeing the smiles in the ride photos. Isn't it good to know that despite all that was going on the other kids could have moments of joy!

The photo at 1900 PF, I know you can't help but think just a few hours from then.... but it is a fabulous family photo!! :thumbsup2
 
So glad that Cassidy is feeling better, and that the whole family is feeling better too! Here's another vote for returning to Disney... Having magical family moments is priceless.... and after all that your family has been through, your family deserves a magical holiday! pixiedust:

Enjoy! Karen
 

Jan is when we have gone the last 2 times. We will never go another time of year!! The crowds are practically nonexistent (except for a few tour groups...just avoid those!) and the weather is AMAZING!!! We wear jackets in the am and pm but during the day jeans and a tshirt are just perfect!! Oh I love it so much!!
 
That's a fantastic family photo at 1900 Park Fare!

I'm glad Cassidy is feeling better and you're planning another trip. Low crowds and mild temps make January is a great time to go. You all deserve this.
 
Great ride pics and your family photo is super good! What a blessing that your parents were able to give your older kids some great memories with them leaving you free to deal with Cassidy's illness.

As a January trip veteran I can assure you it's a wonderful time to go. We always have a few days warm enough to swim and as AprilRenee already said the crowd level is great. There are the tour groups but you can mostly avoid them by going the opposite direction!:rotfl: We went in May a few years ago and our whole family voted to go back to January for both crowd and temperatures. I will admit that there have been a few evenings that were downright cold and I had on my winter coat and gloves while walking around Epcot but it's still our very favorite time to go.
 
We went many many years ago (like over 15) in January. I remember no waits for the big rides at mk (3 mountains).

That's how I remember it from Jan 2000. I wish the darn crowd calendars could agree - I think that's what's freakin me out! lol I do know that no matter what we will have a good time!

I am used to these temperatures (live in south Florida). We are hoping for small crowds with a 3 year old and a 1 year old and a visually impaired mom :)

The temps will be no problem at all - being from Northern MN - 50 is shorts weather! lol And we will be in Disney so bring on anything! lol I hope you have a wonderful trip too!

First of all, I am so glad Cassidy is doing well. I will pray for more good news next week at your follow up. Second of all, I am soooo glad you are going back in January. Your post above summarizes my feelings exactly. I hope you make some really great memories to help ease the sting from Seotember!

Memories will most definitely be made - All within the first day! lol I will be taking pictures like no one ever has! All of our important ADRs are within the first 3 days also - taking no chances! lol

I'm so glad she is doing well! I hope you get to go again soon! You need a do over!

Thank you - she is amazing. I can't wait to tell her that she gets to go back and finish her Birthday!


Love seeing the smiles in the ride photos. Isn't it good to know that despite all that was going on the other kids could have moments of joy!

The photo at 1900 PF, I know you can't help but think just a few hours from then.... but it is a fabulous family photo!! :thumbsup2

Thanks - I am so glad that the kids had fun also. I think it was definitely a good distraction - they are both super sensitive kids so to keep them busy was good. Also my parents both work in the medical field (a pharmacist and a cardiac nurse) so they were able to talk with them and were sensitive to fears and questions the kids brought up - which I guess was more than I thought. My mom has just been telling me that the kids were quite interested in what was going on and had lots of questions - it was nice for them to have my parents to ask and talk to them about it.

I do love that photo - will probably end up being our Christmas Card! :D

So glad that Cassidy is feeling better, and that the whole family is feeling better too! Here's another vote for returning to Disney... Having magical family moments is priceless.... and after all that your family has been through, your family deserves a magical holiday! pixiedust:

Enjoy! Karen

Thanks! We can't wait to go back - :goodvibes

Jan is when we have gone the last 2 times. We will never go another time of year!! The crowds are practically nonexistent (except for a few tour groups...just avoid those!) and the weather is AMAZING!!! We wear jackets in the am and pm but during the day jeans and a tshirt are just perfect!! Oh I love it so much!!

Yayyyyyyy - Thanks so much for the January feedback. I'm excited to try it. We love Sept and will always do some sort of trip in Sept - for the MNSSHP and Cassidy's bday, but since it is hotter than the surface of the sun - I can't wait to experience more mild temps. We also are going in knowing that we may run into some tour groups or crowds, but that it will be OK! :D

That's a fantastic family photo at 1900 Park Fare!

I'm glad Cassidy is feeling better and you're planning another trip. Low crowds and mild temps make January is a great time to go. You all deserve this.

Thanks! Can't wait to try it :goodvibes Only about 104 days to go!! lol

Great ride pics and your family photo is super good! What a blessing that your parents were able to give your older kids some great memories with them leaving you free to deal with Cassidy's illness.

As a January trip veteran I can assure you it's a wonderful time to go. We always have a few days warm enough to swim and as AprilRenee already said the crowd level is great. There are the tour groups but you can mostly avoid them by going the opposite direction!:rotfl: We went in May a few years ago and our whole family voted to go back to January for both crowd and temperatures. I will admit that there have been a few evenings that were downright cold and I had on my winter coat and gloves while walking around Epcot but it's still our very favorite time to go.

Thanks for your January info - I will take cool over blistering hot any day! lol As far as crowds go, we went in Dec last year for a bit and was more crowded than we are used to in Sept. but it worked out OK too - forced us to slow down a bit and take in our surroundings. Sometimes in Sept I'm guilty of practically running from place to place just because I can! lol We plan in just reveling in the fact that we are here and we are healthy and we are together!!!! We are SO SO excited.
 
So on January the 23rd (a little nervous - DH and I went January 2000 this same time and it was a ghost town, but I know that's not the case anymore) we will be heading down on our unused SW tickets and staying at the Cabins at Fort Wilderness. We've stayed there 1 night last trip and really liked it. We're going to Tea, getting silhouettes done, taking a MILLION pictures, having "make-up" birthday breakfast in the castle, and a lot of other amazing things.

:thumbsup2

Hope -- and expect! -- you will have a great time. :)
 
Well we're back after her big MRI and appointment. First off:

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Like the Doctor told me - You dont' need to be a radiologist to read these pics. Top=BAD, bottom=GOOD :D I absolutely want to break down every time I see that top pic. How she had room for all of that in her little body I will never know. And never once complained of a belly ache. We have much to be thankful for.

We also met with the vascular anomalies Dr. Again, it was a bit of a rollercoaster. She is doing phenomenally. She was officially diagnosed with Mixed Lymphatic Malformation. (the mixed part is a combo of macrocystic and microcystic) It's good news because it's essentially a benign condition, but it can and from what I've been reading will most likely reoccur. Just a question of when. Could be 5 years, could be 10 years, could be pubery, could be when she gets pregnant, could be tomorrow. We just don't know. And that is hard for me.

I'm going to also copy and paste part of an email I sent him after I got home. Some questions came to me after the appointment and I read the materials he sent with me and some I didn't want to ask in front of the girls (Annie and Cassidy were with me). Intellectually I feel good about the email, but my Mama heart only sees that one line "yes, this condition has the potential to be life-threatening" *sigh.

That being said, my Cassidy was hard to come by (we had fertility issues and she is a MIRACLE baby but that is another story) and I think she's here to stay for a long time. I know that I will be living life a bit differently. There will be more pictures, more cake pops being made at 9pm, more giggles, more yes's, less no's, more dancing in the kitchen, less cleaning, more movie nights, less Candy Crush, more DQ runs, less yelling and more sidewalk races. I'm just so sorry that it took this to open my eyes to what I was missing with my kiddos. (not that they had such a horrible life - lol, but I wasn't LIVING like I should have been.

Here's that Q&A letter....



1. The first question that I have, just so I can know what I’m talking about – What is the name of what she was diagnosed with. I was told Lymphangioma, but in reading some more, I have found that is an old name? Is the correct term now Lymphatic Malformation? Yes. Lymphatic malformation, mostly macrocystic, but some microcysts so Mixed
Also, would you consider hers fairly benign or more complicated? It's certainly benign in that it's not cancer. If it flares up again, then I'd say it's more complicated

2. Which brings me to my second question – Is hers more than likely always going to appear in her abdomen. Yes
Can/do these malformations end up showing up somewhere else? No
I see that some have bone, heart and lung involvement, but do they usually present with them there or do they migrate? Usually present with them from the beginning

4. She is mildly anemic – all of her other blood work was fine and her hemoglobin wasn’t even low, but she had an iron ferratin test done in June before all of this happened and it was found that was a bit low, but her red blood cells were slightly pale and smaller. I apologize profusely for not bringing this up yesterday – this was one of the questions I really wanted to ask as her dark circles have come back a bit since her surgery. Is this anemia tied to her Lymphatic Malformation directly, or more so a result of where it was located and interfering with her nutrient absorption? Is this anything to be concerned about or will clear up now that she is eating well.

Her blood counts here in September were normal, actually her hemoglobin was at the upper end of normal at 13.1 and her red cells were normal size and color. From her results in September there is no concern for iron deficiency or other nutritional issues

5. I know you talked about this also, but after reading the literature I wanted to ask. Does she have any other venous, or arterial abnormalities. Other than her Lymphatic malformation, is she healthy?
No other abnormalities that we are aware of.

6.One thing that caught my eye was on the Rapamycin paper it said that “Patients must have vascular anomolies that have potential to cause significant morbidity. In addition to the above diagnosis, one of the following criteria should be met: Coagulopathy, Chronic Pain, Recurrent Cellulitis, Ulceration, Visceral and/or Bone Involvement, or Cardiac Dysfunction.”

Does, can, will she meet the above?
She does have visceral involvement (abdomen/pelvis) but she's not having symptoms right now.
Bottom line – Is her condition life-threatening or have the potential to be?
It certainly has the potential to be, but I think she's at lower risk than our patients with lung/heart invlovement.

Also, and I apologize again, questions I should have asked in office – is there anything we can do day to day to help keep this in check? Special diet, etc.?

The daily celebrex should help. There is no special diet or activity that is known to be helpful

I hope I addressed all of your concerns.



Director, Hemoglobinopathy Program
Co-Director, Vascular Anomalies Clinic
Children's Hospitals and Clinics of Minnesota
2530 Chicago Avenue South, CSC-175
Minneapolis, MN 55405



Thanks for following us along on our journey - I don't know what the future holds other than a Disney Trip in January (which he saw absolutely NO problem with :D) I will definitely have to try and do a trip report for that one - I'll have to come up with a really good title for that one :rotfl2:
 
I'm so glad that the second MRI is the end result!! :banana: That must be heartbreaking to see the first one with all that abdominal involvement. And to know that she is doing so well, I suppose that is one of the reasons that you'll be having more DQ runs and dance in the kitchen!! :dance3:

I'm looking forward to hearing about your January trip.

Thank you again for sharing your story with us. I'm so sorry that you, your family and especially Cassidy had to go through that experience but the happy ending was well worth shedding a few tears with you along the way. :hug:
 
I'm so pleased that you received good results with the MRI and sending many positive thoughts and prayers your way. Wishing you and your family nothing but the best!

Enjoy that trip in January!
 
I was speechless when I looked at that first MRI. Oh I just can't imagine all that growing inside her. Poor baby! I am so glad you are on the other side of all this stuff now. I am praying that this a one and only occurrence for her. Can't wait to hear about the next trip. :cool1:
 
Wow! Lots of medical information to digest! The difference in the two MRI's is pretty astounding! Great doc to answer your questions so completely and the good news is, you will know what the symptoms are IF there is a next time. I sure do feel your mama's heart though. Those few words will live in your head forever but as she continues to do well, hopefully, they'll be relegated to a backseat position! :goodvibes So glad to hear that she's doing so well now. Enjoy planning your January vacation and all the fun times soon to be had!!
 
I am so glad you are going back. I absolutely think it's the right decision - finish what you started, for sure! Make memories!!!
 
I'm so glad that the second MRI is the end result!! :banana: That must be heartbreaking to see the first one with all that abdominal involvement. And to know that she is doing so well, I suppose that is one of the reasons that you'll be having more DQ runs and dance in the kitchen!! :dance3:

I'm looking forward to hearing about your January trip.

Thank you again for sharing your story with us. I'm so sorry that you, your family and especially Cassidy had to go through that experience but the happy ending was well worth shedding a few tears with you along the way. :hug:

Thanks to all of you for allowing me to spew my emotions to a captive audience - lol. I never really understood how much it was helping me to be able to get it out. I've just finished her slideshow video and as I was watching it, I thought to myself, "Is this weird, why did I make a video of this?!" But then I realized that is just how I deal with things - I apparently think my life should have a soundtrack like the movies...lol.

My smart mouth son even said to me as he was watching it - "mom, when my new puppy gets here, will you make a video for the first time he poops?!" I told him to watch it or there won't be a puppy to make a video of! lol

Also wanted to let you know that I have followed along with your trip reports for quite awhile now - I may have to start posting on them! lol Also, can't believe I'm wondering if I've ever mentioned that my name is Emily and grew up as "Emmy" :D

I'm so pleased that you received good results with the MRI and sending many positive thoughts and prayers your way. Wishing you and your family nothing but the best!

Enjoy that trip in January!

Thank you SO much - I'm hopeful that we will :D


I was speechless when I looked at that first MRI. Oh I just can't imagine all that growing inside her. Poor baby! I am so glad you are on the other side of all this stuff now. I am praying that this a one and only occurrence for her. Can't wait to hear about the next trip. :cool1:

Thank you. I can't believe that we are on the other side of all this! I just received our photopass CD in the mail and it's very surreal looking at the pictures - that was only 6 weeks ago but seems a lifetime.....


Wow! Lots of medical information to digest! The difference in the two MRI's is pretty astounding! Great doc to answer your questions so completely and the good news is, you will know what the symptoms are IF there is a next time. I sure do feel your mama's heart though. Those few words will live in your head forever but as she continues to do well, hopefully, they'll be relegated to a backseat position! :goodvibes So glad to hear that she's doing so well now. Enjoy planning your January vacation and all the fun times soon to be had!!

Thank you. The amazing part was he sent that email only about an hour after I sent it to him :goodvibes I really liked him and am glad for all of the amazing Drs that we were blessed to have involved with our daughter.

I'm not sure what possessed me to bluntly ask that question, but I just had to know. I've read such mixed articles. The incidence for this Lymphatic Malformation is so low that it's hard to find info. All of what I have read is very low incidence of death, but the literature HE gave me to read was very scary! lol I think what he gave me dealt will ALL types - the kinds that are in the head/neck and heart/lungs. So I think I was getting all worked up and I just had to know. I will NOT be dwelling on that and instead focus on the here and now.

We are going to rock that January trip! :D


I am so glad you are going back. I absolutely think it's the right decision - finish what you started, for sure! Make memories!!!

Thank you! That's what we're calling it - Finish what we started! LOL
 
Wow....what an amazing trip report (roller coaster ride to say the least)! I shed a few tears, chuckled a lot and had a smile on my face throughout the TR knowing all would turn out okay with Cassidy :goodvibes SO happy she is doing well!

You have an amazing, beautiful and blessed family and your story helped me take a step back and remind myself of life's blessings! I'm so happy you are planning a trip which your whole family deserves so don't think twice about wanting to go. Your little Cassidy is a little trooper and will live a long life - many happy memories ahead of you for your whole family :lovestruc
 
Agreeing with sherylcin that it sounds like you have an excellent doctor. :thumbsup2

So glad things are going so well for y'all. Lots of people thinking and praying about your family, including me. We'll be there in spirit when you go back in January -- but I think you'd have a great time even without that. Learning to enjoy what you have, when you have it, generally results in better vacations. :goodvibes
 







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