That's funny that you said you like Winter & Fall, and not Spring and Summer as much. Apparently Winter & Fall were written/directed by A-SP, while Summer and Spring were written/directed by Dan Palladino. And I think a lot of people feel the same way you do (myself included), that Winter and Fall were better.
Also funny what you said about the L&DB sequence, whether or not it was real - at one point my husband was like, "is Rory hallucinating or something?!"

That scene was trippy!
I loved Emily's storyline. I still don't get the maid/family being in it so much, but whatever. Overall I was very satisfied with how they ended things for Emily.
I agree that Lorelei's storyline wasn't very impactful - it was pretty much exactly what I expected to happen to her, so I'm glad she got her happy ending, but it was obvious at the same time. I COMPLETELY agree that the 10-year jump was too long, I think that was a big issue for me with the whole revival. Which...I realize they can't go back in time, but maybe it shouldn't have been happening "in real time"? Maybe that wouldn't have worked either.
I can appreciate the struggle Rory had, but I am wondering if the Palladinos were trying to make some bigger point - like, Lorelei was 32 when the show started (how old Rory is now). Lorelei raised rory herself, worked her way up from being a maid to the manager at the Independence Inn and then owned her own Inn. Whereas Rory has been given everything - private school education and Yale paid for - and yet she still seems to just expect things to happen for her - like she didn't even prepare for that job interview because she just assumed the position would be handed to her. I think that was my bigger issue with her situation - she was given all of the tools to be the next Christiane Amanpour like she wanted but lost the drive to get there somewhere along the way. So is that something we're supposed to get out of this? That it's better to work your way up (Lorelei) than to be handed everything (Rory)? And I felt like we were hit over the head with how brilliant/special she is throughout the series, so it was jarring in a way to see her acting so childish as a 32-year-old (I don't mean not having a job, I mean not actively really trying to get one). I feel like I'm not wording this very well...
Agree with your thoughts on the final 4 words.

Curious to see if we'll get more episodes, I feel like the story seems finished but if Netflix pays, who knows...