True story - 22-year-old goes out with friends to celebrate college graduation. Gets pulled over for speeding, police officer smells alcohol, breathalizer tests reveals 0.01 over the limit. Goes to jail - luckily released with no bond as another police officer was friends with individual - goes to court - sentenced to one-year probation, fines that took over 5 years to pay off, community service for one year, licensed suspended for one year, breathalizer machine installed on vehicle for one year, had to attend AA meetings weekly for one year - scared the *** out of the individual. Stayed depressed with suicidal thoughts for several months.
Fast forward 16 years later - individual detests alcohol, still has to mention incident on every job application, volunteer application for child's school, etc., so the reminder is always there. Is this something that the entire family should have to be dealing with now out of the blue?