Let's make this simple (so families don't have to drop out)...on the spreadsheet instead of calling it "FE" call it "FE cabin." This way a family with 2 or 3 cabins who still want to participate in the FE but only want to exchange one FE gift from their family can pick the one cabin as an "FE cabin." This way they will still receive one FE gift and only have to give one FE gift from their family. This will make it fair for all families to choose how many "FE cabins" they will have participating.
On our last cruise we had issues with this same situation...we gave out FEs to each of the cabins but some families who had more than one cabin gave out only one gift. This is why we were saying that we were only going to give out one FE gift per family...but I think making it an "FE cabin" will resolve this.
Only 45 days until our cruise!![]()
I added "cabin"
I think however there is always going to be a BIG swing in what people are going to give. I have couples who give a very nice personalized item and a family with 2 cabins give a ziplock with tootsie rolls. I think everyone should give what they want and to who they want. If you want to give one per family then go for it. If I want to give one per cabin then that works too.