Student loans are not evil. One can be STUPID about taking out student loans, certainly as this person has illustrated, but I hate to see someone chose between not taking out some loans and not going to college. Our son will have student loans when he graduates, equivalent to about a car payment. It isn't all that bright to take out $100,000 in student loans for a job that pays $30,000. You have to factor that into your decision too. Is going to Harvard going to make a difference between you getting selected for a teaching position vs someone that went to the local State U-probably not, but going to Harvard might make a difference between you getting into a top medical school vs someone that graduated from the local state U. You have to weigh the benefits. Is $100,000 in student loan debt a big deal for a dr, not really, but it is for a teacher (or a fortune cookie writer

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First, $100,000 in debt is a big deal even for a dr. I have friends who left medical school owing $120,000. He is a Dr and she is a teacher. What you fail to realize is that often Dr's are at an age where they have started a family by the time they can practice. Yes they have a "decent" salary but their expenses are quite large as well. Also, many 17 year olds don't factor in medical malpractice insurance and all the expenses being a doctor dictates when they choose to go into debt for their career. Not every doctor is swimming in cash, especially those who choose to go into family practice.
Secondly, I'm not saying that you can't get an affordable education at a private school. I am saying that you should apply to all different prices of school because in this day you can't be sure that the financial aid packages of a private school are going to come close to covering the difference between public and private.
Third, most professions that would care about an Ivy League degree would rather see it on your graduate diploma. It's much more cost effective to pay for your first 4 years at a less expensive college and move on to a more expensive/prestigious one for your graduate work.
Last...and really a side note...nobody with a "B" average gets into Geneseo. I squeaked in over 20 years ago with an A minus, but you better be looking at an A plus average, excellent SAT/ACT scores and an impressive high school resume if you plan on going now. Employers on the east coast are just as impressed with Geneseo for a liberal arts education as they are with Boston College, Union, and maybe even Cornell. I'm sure their are many other public colleges with similar reputations.
Need based, neither of my parents make much money. My cousins got a lot of aid and their parents make twice of what my parents do so we are expecting a lot too.
I wouldn't count on the aid still being there. Things are changing so quickly on state and federal financial aid budgets that people who would have received aid last year may not receive it this year.
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I understand what loans mean. I have family who have large loans but it is manegable. I am somebody who is hard to please at times and I know I could not speand 4 years somewhere if I was not happy there no matter what the cost. I do believe that it is important to be happy over the 4 years no matter the cost. I am expecting to come out of college owing something and that is fine with me. It is my decision to make and I know what I want.
I have been to a lot of places upstate and it is not me! And I know that i do not want a female college! I am somebody who has never had a boyfriend and one of the things I am most excited about in college is to start dating! I know that there are other schools around but I want to be able to go to school with guys.
I understand about student loans and am fine with taking them out. I have done math with my cousin who owes 100 grand and we figured out that if you make 45k (his salary) you can have your loans payed off by the time your 30. I do not think that's bad. Now, I do know that I may not make 45k right off the bat but still, I am fine with paying student loans. And I know you are going to try to convince me otherwise because I am young and all but you are not changing my mind! I already know where I really want to go (all of the other schools are just backups) and I will pay whatever to go there because that is how much I loved it.
I commend your cousin for living so frugally and planning to do so for the next ten years. A person making $45,000 will probably clear about $32,000 a year after taxes and insurance premiums/copays. That's approximately $2,700 a month clear. When you take $100,000, compound 6% interest annually, you would need to pay $1,500 a month to pay it off in ten years. I don't know many people who can live on $1,200 a month with rent, food, car, commuting costs... I guess no vacations, no boyfriend/girlfriend no kids, no house for the next ten years. Now, if you make $35,000 a year with that same debt load, you can expect to clear no more than $2,100 a month. Minus $1,500 for loan payments and that leaves you with $600 a month to live on for ten years. Good luck.