My sister passed away from cancer last fall. My niece, 19, started having panic attacks and became agorophobic (afraid to leave the house) after the shock wore off. She ended up quitting her job and dropping out of college because she couldn't drive herself to work. For a while it was really bad. They had her on some pretty heavy anti-depressants and anxiety meds. She has finally started getting back to her old self, and I am so thankful.
Poly was always my "one day I will stay there" dream resort. We have been there for dinner, luau, and fireworks from the beach on the last several trips, and I can honestly say I don't ever care if I stay there now. The long houses look so dark and dated from the outside. The main building is terribly crowded and loud. And I just don't get that relaxed feeling I get at CSR. DH's dream is the tower at CR, and I have no desire for that, either. GF is beautiful, but always seems very cold to me. I guess if I were to stay at a deluxe, it would be BC or WL. But honestly... the thought of walking in closed hallways down long corridors is depressing. If I am going to do the mileage walking to my room, then I want it to be in the open air with a nice view!