We have AP's and we live in Ohio. Being DVC members with 3 trips planned in less than 12 months it made much more $$ sense to get the AP(we get a DVC discount on AP's) over individual tickets for each trip(we would go park hopper anyway). Plus you can get the DDE card(the darn thing paid for itself on our first trip).
and collecting them is her focus. DS2 is young enough to tag along where we take him. DH and I like trying new restaurants and new attractions. We always stay in a different hotel, which makes it a new experience. Part of the magic for us is the fact that we can revisit old favorites (attractions/ restaurants) mixed with new ones.