BUMMER for Emily on Splash, that was us on Star Tours in November, and for Soarin one time.... But we did manage to get him on Splash, BTMRR, Test Track and Soarin after all... this was in Nov., when he was 40" IF you fluffed up his hair, or he wore his sneakers

He was still 3, and hardly a "wisp" of a kid, so I knew he'd be fine... However he didn't quite know what he was missing, so if we got stopped I didn't think he'd figure it out.... We had no problem this June/July, of course, because he is now over 40", but it was a drag a few times in Nov...
SO of course she was disappointed, totally understandable! And I did the same for DS4 when he couldn't ride Mission Space with DH and DS7 - he got a little Disney Racer... So next time you all go she will be big enough and that will be exciting for her!!! She will be big enough for a LOT of great rides!!!!
After reading all the nuttiness, with the bottle, etc, etc, I really was laughing inside for the same reason everyone else has mentioned -- that we have ALL had those "less-than-magical" moments, but after it is easier to just laugh about it, or at least know you made the best of the situation, because indeed there are other people (blinking idiots) who can influence your trip w/o you expecting them -- the bus mishaps are the perfect example, who WOULDN'T get up to assist you in that case, goodness!!!!! I was in disbelief, especially the second time on the way home, totally crazy.
AT anyrate, the next day does seem to have started off nicely!!
I must say you have had total luck and awesome character photo opportunities! I am so impressed with all the characters you found!!! How special for your girls!!! I love TSM, too -- did you see the Pixar lamp??!!
That will be the ride of choice for your girls I am sure! It makes DHS worth it for us!!!