Rather than 4 "commando" park days, and 4 totally chilled ones,Have a great trip -- it should be wonderful whichever plan you go with.
We have been to WDW 5 times and we know how to "plan" so we don't have to go commando

That has only happened once. 4 days will give us time to show a friend around and see what would be "Adult stuff"

Yeah I know it's still Disney!!
At MK Fantasyland and Toontown will be busy with constuction. So we do the other 3 lands along with dinner a parade and wishes
At AK stick to the FOTLK, Bug's life, EE, Dinosaur, Primeval Whirl and parade, Oh yeah and breakfast with The DONALD
At Epcot it's Soarin,MS and enjoy a few drinks around the world til dinner at Le Cellier
And last but not least MGM. This was a hard one to figure out. So we decided on doing everything to the right if the HAT

ToT,RnR,BATB,TSM and as many relaxing things as we want to. NO PARADE

Not to impressed!!
We just want to do the rides or shows we want to watch or ride. And who knows, the crowds in the 2 middle weeks are a bit show with the crowds. Use of FP's

And added meals to make each day wonderful!!
TO EVERYONE WHO HAS VOTED AND LEFT MESSAGES: I want to thank you all for all for the wonderful ideas for this and other trips. For now we will be going everyother year til the DD's move out

Then we may go more often.
