captaincrash
<font color=darkorchid>!!!Surrender over yer LOOT!
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I can tell you I don't know what has happened over the last few weeks but this just dosen't seem to be the same happy, loving party, planning folks that were posting then. I only hope that whatever happened can be put away and more happy peacefulness put in it's place. Here's to hoping that we can turn it around and let go of whatever it is that now has a hold on this thread. I would like to hear more about what folks are planing have found out about ports or the kids and pets at home.
.... Hope every is having an awesome week-end.
So I logged on to relax after 12 hours in the car...
notsomuch.
I've been avoiding this as much as I can, but I have to say that I don't have this much drama in my real life & I'm certainly not going to put up with it on vacation!
I'm going on a trip of a lifetime with my family. I am excited about that. Making new friends and having fun while planning is a nice bonus. Most of you guys seem great - I can even see making lasting friendships with many of you, but at the end of the day, if you all were to disappear, I would still be looking forward to this trip with my husband and my boys. It surprises me that not everyone sees it that way.
I don't want this to get shut down, most of us are enjoying ourselves. I really hope that we can get out of this rut soon and get back to having fun. I don't know how to make that happen, but if I could, believe me, I would.
M.
(somewhere in Kansas)
Totally agree M, our family is going to have a great time with or without anyone else.
Wow, I have a quick look at things while I am on vacation and the what the heck has happened around here?JR that was nice of you to step in and FINISH the work on the web site--apparently all the security issues weren't addressed before it was made public. That was the big hold up on the web site to begin with, wasn't it?
I am also sorry that you have cancelled your cruise--I know that it is never an easy decision. But life does have a way of happening and changing things for us.
I haven't been posting much at all lately and try to make it to chat when I can. But I tell you the wind needs to change over here, it used to be a lot of fun to read and post, but it has been different for awhile. I sure hope it changes back to the fun board it used to be by fall when I will once again have the time to be an active poster.
OK....
At the risk of perpetuating some of this - I want to just say I agree in general with the above comments and hope this all blows over. I have 8 (or 9?) cabins of family and old friends booked and am going on the voyage. I have been myself here just having a little fun poking fun with my images and comments - and now it's looking so "serious" and ... (I don't know what - but as I read backwards I'll figure it out eventually - maybe). So, I am reading backwards to try and catch up - and at the same time I am biting my tounge to not ferment any further chaos. I for one do not like what I am seeing in general - and wish folks could have just been more cordial somehow.
Oh well ... I am just working my way backwards to catch up a little before I turn in. I had a wonderful BBQ dinner with old friends - and tomorrow we're having a BBQ lunch pool side. Then we're gonna try and take it easy and not run all over the planet!
OK I'll say it...GABBIE GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE......... there is more here than just JR. There is Todd and all his Graphics work...There WAS Lisa, till some chased here away, there is Judy who set up the First Page and Countless others who have tried to help. Yes JR should get a thank you for his work but PLLLEEASEEE get off it because your not sounding very smart right now to the the rest of us that have helped or supported and know of these people who have performed other functions on this thread.
Of course maybe your really ***** and just trying to start something....after all you said you had under 50 posts....
Thank you... however this was a bit stiff worded - and I think I'm beginning to feel if you had not said this then maybe I would have. However, I might have endeavored to be a little less stiff. I just want folks to settle down and not look for conflict as if it was the real objective.
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OK.... I see the problem now...
this post is offensive and over the top - I wasn't in chat but NOTHING that has gone before on this thread has come anywhere near this.
I am also saddened to see ANYONE drop out - but this post just goes beyond acceptable.....
I am becoming embarrassed to be associated with this thread......
... and it is NOT pansmermaidzlagoon. Flames of the sort that pansmermaidzlagoon quoted are way out of line as was stated. In 66,000+ postings no one has said anything quite like this and I can only say I am NOT thinking this is ANY reflection of the thread or it's contributors... but the rantings of ONE person. This smacks of the work of folks from another web site who chaf at the unity and happiness we've spawned here with 66,000+ postings and 650,000 hits. I think it a shame anyone would engage in such commentary ... and what else can I say that should be said THAT has not already been said.
Oh well.... to all who were offended by the comments vented - I would like to counsel that this should NOT keep you away as it is probably what the original author was seeking to accomplish - that's just my opinion. I'm entitled to it ... and that's what I see. We should be able to dissent without engaging in a series of remarks as were posted by the entity which pansmermaidzlagoon quoted.
Oh well... it all stinks and if I were the one having posted those type of comments and attacks I would not be very proud or defensive - as pithy retorts have no high ground to stand upon here.
OK... I have nothing more I need to see on this matter. I've seen enough. Old friends - when you're ready to swing by - please do. New friends lurking - what you've seen is IMO is just one persons' pointy opinion. It does not reflect the spirt of the community... obviously. And if this language reappears in another "entity" I would be suspicious of it's origin.
.... sigh.....