
..to sk8, ha!..i see someone..was keeping the ou's traditions,
[party & famous]....going! while..the rest of us..were having to
work! [well @ least..."go to work". ]
fyi, why?....i sorta chose..you for my humor attempts~

?
* i still remember..how much support & solace..you gave , reaching out
to the family ...having to suffered a terrible..loss. sometimes "courage"
..is hard to define....for the living..when we are fill with tears. that
makes those rallying around..our needs..all that special...as we struggle
to put our lives..back on track. i kon..your caring & comforting...took
alot..of fortitude...but will always..be important to those left behind.
God bless....
..i share..a lil'story...that always been a part of my life. we grew up
with alot families..similar to ours...with lots of kids. so that meant
alot.."tag-alongs...covering alot of ages...well one was an army paratrooper,
..dued to shipped out the next day. but i was way to young to comphrend...
vietnam...and the draft. we were on a bank....taking in the evening...
...stars gazing...when noticed.."how in the world..the grass is wet?
..when
it hadn't rain?

. instead of blowing off..this..lil'kid...he took
the time..to explained..all about the dew. it impressed me~here's this lil'kid..&
he took the time...to

. not only did they make me feel like
a "big"..kid..but important that an adult [ well..there was a time...long, long
ago..when..i can recall.."18"..was an over the hill.."kid-adult". ] this event
etched his memory..in my mind &

forever. just sharing something
simple..."star glazing".
..by the next..weekend....everyone heard....the terrible news..he was
killed..paratrooping...during "action"..in vietnam..., i can remember
my mother....staying with his mother...

, but..i had no concept
of death..."when is ****y comin back home?" & the
..his gifts..that evening,..has stayed..with me all these years...& they
are in~deeds....

..i can see him..sititng..and how "serious"..his
expressions..taking the time..to not only

but...

the
world. & i because..of his gifts..i can always..recall..what the world meant
to me...when i was just begining..to figure it out. [ while its hard to put
into words...his understanding..wisdom beyond...anything..i could imagine..
gave me...so many insights..i still used to this very day.]
* his name...is ..on the wall,

~
gifts..that help me in my current workk..on recognizing lil'things..having
so much meanings.
dear njy & eeyore..i think your support of our troops..are a great reflection
..of ..comfort & strength~
fyi,i still have...the "missing in action" bracelet...from vietnam days..when
many of "our boys"..went mising. * the way it worked...one gave & received
a silver bracelt..with name, rank, & date..missing. then whenever he/she
as found..they were supposed..to notified you...

, i never heard...
someday..i like to find..the family..and send hem the bracelet...as a simple
gesture of thanks...for their great sacrfice.
..ok?..when my brothers..went ...to vietnam...we went in a canvan to the
airport..with flowers..and homemade treats [ where's mine?-

]
..& every thing in between. what i remember most..him kissing his
girlfriend..before boarding ..the plane. later, they had 2 girls..graduates..
from the ohio state university...& they have a bunch of kids~ go figure?

. * howeber, joel..the one..is an ou bobcat,too..see? a pattern?

.., now..all of this..goes a long..way to defined..why..the soap box
derby..i started...has the tradition..of recognizing & rewarding..local
families...before every race!

..if only..to remember when ...we were
all out to have some fun..& how important..we feel their sarcifices are..
..in our daily living & our communites!
ps, i know..from my military days...your efforts..produces..great joys!
