Disney Mommy 3
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I"m curious about something here. I'm wondering how many people here really think about what the person you are buying for is into before you shop and how many are like 'okay, I have to shop for a 4 year old boy, I see a boy toy on clearance, appropriate for a 4 year old boy so I buy it and 4 year old boy is done'. Probably moreso for kids than adults and probably moreso for the random kids on your list, not your own. I feel like I'm more picky than most people when it comes to picking out gifts and I'm thinking maybe I am stressing myself out unnecessarily.
well...it depends on who you are purchasing for...my Nephew for example,..on my side he is the only one I have~and since he has been born, I buy for him like I would one of my own~as far as getting a list from his mom and really getting what he like..now that he is older, I ask him specifically and he tells me. He lives 3 hours from me and since I can't have him here as often as I want him, then I don't mind taking the time...and he appreciates it and doesn't get much from his other side of the family...when we were buying for DHs side when they were younger, I took forever buying all the nieces and nephews gifts, trying to find what they wanted and doing it 'right.' We were very bad off financially (as most newlyweds are!) and the majority of them didn't even say thanks~in fact a few of them looked at each other and rolled their eyes and threw the gift bags on the floor and walked off! This ranged from around 4-15 at that time. So, I decided I was finished with that! And that is how they are all the time..so I am not sweating it..and we didn't do the gifts for them again~once my kids came we drew a name and I asked their moms what they wanted or just got a gift card to the Toys R Us or Target stores..
So,..it depends on who it is~And I took a lOOONG time to say that didn't I?

