It looks like I may have to cancel this trip. Even though it is still over 9 months away, too many conflicts are starting to pop up. I have a then 13 year old who may end up going to France, Monaco, and Italy summer 2003 and since Cobb County schools are out on May 23, 2003 the teacher is planning the trip to be from May 31st(the day the cruise gets back) thru June 9th. My husband emailed the teacher and she said the travel company can play with the date a couple of days either side of the 31st, which means they could leave Atlanta as early as May 29th or leave as late as June 2 but she won't know until a couple of months before the actual departure date and even less than that for the departure time. My husband really wants him to go on the trip. One of ours neighbors kids went this past summer(they did France and Spain) and the mother said the child has a great time. My 15 year old is hoping to get to be one of the clarinet section leaders for marching band for the 2003 fall marching season, which is great, I really want him to get this. But if he gets named one of the section leaders he really should be at rookie band camp which for the last two years has been the week after school gets out(it's held at the high school) and I feel it would look really bad for him to miss this and we won't know until the middle of next May if he gets named one of the section leaders, after the trip has been paid in full. I have looked at switching a couple of weeks later, over 5000.00 for the same category I have now( cat 5 on deck 7), just cannot afford that. Christmas is all booked up, nothing until Jan 18, 2003. Really can't afford Christmas time either, as I priced Christmas 2003 and it is over 5000.00. Besides I don't think my work would be happy with me missing Christmas as I am going to be gone Thanksgiving week with band to Hawaii(marching in a parade), not chaperoning, but tagging along as a family. a tagalong group was offered for families to go along with the band and my husband said we are going, even though I hate to fly. My 12, soon to be 13 will go with us and miss 2 days of schools since they only go Monday and Tuesday of Thanksgiving week but a lot of his fellow 7th graders will be gone from school for a school sponsered trip to Orlando, so I know he will not be missing a lot of school that week, luckily. Tried getting the dates from the county for Spring Break 2004 but they don't have them yet. Priced a couple of the weeks it could be, one week is reasonable, the other week is over 5000.00. I can't win. Will not take the kids out of school, although I did consider it for about a minute. I know a lot of people on this board do support letting your kids missing school regardless of their ages but I just cannot. The cost they would pay for misssing school is not worth taking the cruise. I haven't cancelled yet but it is looking like I will have to. I thought the older they got the easier it would be, I was wrong big time. Sorry this is long but it has been a frustrating week.
Suzanne