Heyy Tom, I'm here now =]
We're not going back til...well, I have no clue when. We went in August last year, stayed at POR. 6 nights, 7 days woohoo!
As for TSM, it's REALLY good. Go first thing in the morning. Don't get a Fastpass right away (that line tends to be longer than the ride line!). Just go on in and enjoy! On August 20, 2008 we waited maybe 35 minutes first thing in the morning. The 3D is cool, and the games are fun. The queue is super-cool, lots of things to look at.
As for restuarants, my personal favorites are:
Magic Kingdom:
Counter Service-
Columbia Harbour House--Liberty Square
Pecos Bill Cafe--Frontierland
Table Service-
Crystal Palace! Crystal Palace! Crystal Palace!
Epcot:
Counter Service-
Sunshine Seasons Food Faire--The Land
Cantina de San Angel--Mexico
Table Service-
Rose & Crown--U.K.
MGM:
Counter Service-
Don't really eat counter service here...past few trips have been table service and snacks only.
Table Service-
50's Prime Time Cafe
Mamma Melrose
AK:
Counter Service-
I LOVED the old Tusker House CS but now it's a table service
Flame Tree Barbeque is good, though
Other:
1900 Park Faire--Grand Floridian
O'hana--Poly
Chef Mickey's--Contemporary
Rainforest Cafe--DTD (Marketplace)
Wolfgang Puck Express (Marketplace...by far the BEST counter service)
Whoo. Thanks.

I'll look at your suggestions.