I'm not saying it shouldn't be Male, but the reality is money is finite.
If I've got 500 and i'm putting 5 bucks away that's great but when health care goes up, food cost go up, car insurance goes up but all I still have is 500 bucks. Please tell me where the "leftovers" are?
You are absolutely right, choices are made and priorities set. If it's a choice between getting my kid medical help, getting my kid food or saving for retirement. Food will come first. If you lose your job, it's easy for us to say "pay yourself first" but if you have to pay the mortgage or keep your funds in your 401K MOST people (yes I know, no one on the dis would dare liquadate their 401k's) probably start spending their retirement savings.
So basically like I said, I'm leary of this so called "studies". they never tell you the circumstances around the people polled, as the article said many are aware they don't have enough to retire on. That tells you there are outside forces effecting their ability to save.
This winter has been brutal here in the Northeast. I know folks who's gas bills have tripled. There disaposable income hasn't trippled so where do they get the money from? So you tell them to pay themselves first or keep the heat on? (yes I know everyone here has 3 months living expenses in the bank, I'm talking about the guy with less than 1000 in the bank). My heating bill for the Dec, Jan, Feb and probably March is going to be double the normal. DOUBLE. for 4 months straight. My salary hasn't doubled so that's extra money going out. now I'm lucky that I have savings but with two kids in college, mortgage yada yada yada, not alot of "pay yourself first" room.
Not saying it's right or wrong, just saying I totally understand how some one can wake up at 48 and realize they don't have enough saved.