We skip the stretching room on almost every time we ride. DH can't go in it so they escort us (we are a family of 4) through the back and we meet up with the guests right after they get out of the room. You just get in line like normal and tell the person at the door when you walk in you want to skip the stretching room. They have you wait by the door on the opposite side of the entrance and then a CM will escort you and your party around.
Sometimes we don't want to skip it and we let DH go around the back with the CM alone and he meets up with us as we exit the stretching room.
FYI, my kids have been going on this ride since they were infants. It's a family favorite and they were never afraid of it. Then again, my kids favorite movies were Sleepy Hollow and a Nightmare Before Xmas as kids, so maybe they aren't a good example
