One thing I learned from the last cruise is that the great memories may come from a place you didn't expect, and the things you thought would be wonderful may not be. And you definitely can't predict kids moods, especially if they haven't gotten enough sleep! I guess you really have to roll with the punches. That said, I'd have a tough time being all mellow if my stateroom stunk. My daughter would tell me to sue disney. (She's still at the stage where she thinks being a lawyer is cool and powerful - like a police officer. I'm guessing that'll change pretty quick)y. The thing I worry most about is if my daughter gets too excited about an excursion - like the dolphins or parasailing, and then we get rained out or something.