C. Ann, I just got over something like this - I don't know if it was the flu or not, but I felt lousy for a couple of weeks. I finally had to call in the backups - my huband being out of town I had just worn myself ragged, so I called my sister and brother for help.
Do you have someone you can call on? You need your strength right now, it would be better if you could rest up for a few days. Is your daughter nearby?
Sending you lots of pd and prayers that you get well soon. You have had way too much on your plate to be sick on top of it.