I was away yesterday but so happy to read this this morning. Aren't the meds a problem. When my dad was home and had so many pills, I bought little containers that they use to put salad dressing in. I would fill and mark them, morning, mid-day, afternoon, evening and night. Only way I could keep track of them and made sure he took them.
Then when I gave up all the care because he was doing so well - he chose going out to eat rather than buying his medication! He was naughty at times, but he lived his life as he wanted.
denise