Oh, C. Ann, I just came online to see if there were any posts from you, I'm so sorry the news is not better.
I know this is an awful lot of stress you are carrying, but please, please, please take care of yourself! You need to eat and you need to rest so you can stay strong for the days that lie ahead. We all care about you here, and are here for you whenever you need to talk.
Big, big cyber hugs to you now.