Rose&Mike
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I agree--goal weight definitely=confidence. And I think when you back slide and put a bunch back on you feel even worse sometimes--mentally and physically.
Today I am asking you to share some INSIGHT into what keeps you going on this journey. Why did you adopt a NEVER GIVE UP attitude with regards to weight loss/healthy lifestyle living? What spurs you on, keeps you moving, motivates you even when things aren't going in the right direction? Share a story, anecodote, situation, or just a motivational quote that always picks you up!
My story was shared, a bit, yesterday, when I talked about my social anxiety in meeting new people. While that has always been an issue for me.... I've always been shy, awkward, and lacking in self-confidence, being overweight certainly compounded those problems. Add to that having two kiddos that I didn't want to embarrass and I definitely had motivation to keep me looking good. While it is a bit easier to lose the weight for an occasion (upcoming wedding, vacation, reunion, etc), there will ALWAYS be something in life coming up ..... meeting new people, attending a new church, etc where having extra self-confidence will come in handy.... and getting to and maintaining my goal weight is what I need to give me that extra self-confidence!
Off to work, but I'll BBL to chat!...................P
So I am going to be brutally honest (as much with myself as anything) about 'never give up' attitude. This might only make sense to me. I think in someways I have used it as a crutch--the whole idea that it's ok that I messed up today, because I am not quitting and I will get back on the wagon tomorrow. Of course we should always forgive ourselves and move forward, BUT we also need to be accountable to ourselves and realize that sometimes we are just plain messing up and being lazy about the healthy living stuff and in my case using it as an excuse to fail and be a failure (again). It is really not ok that I binged on chips a million times over the last 6 months. It is really bad for me and if I don't lose some weight it is going to impact my long term health. So while I do not want to give up I do need to STOP making excuses for my poor behavior and at a minimum own my choices, be they good or bad.

Thank you.YOU HAVE BEEN SORELY MISSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so happy you are back! You can do this.... you know what to do. Can't wait to share a successful April with you!...............P

Hi Molli! I too have to remind myself over and over how great I feel when I am eating better, exercising, meditating, etc. Great post!yay Rose&Mike you are back!!!!! confession is good for the spirit, but no judgment here....we are just happy for your return!
Pamela -- I love your motivation story, its really a great point. my confidence soars when I'm feeling good in my clothes, or wearing a smaller size...
for me motivation has been lacking...I'm trying to tap into how GREAT I felt just before I left for FL when my body was feeling good with eating healthy and getting in lots of activity. Further back, I try to tap into how awesome I felt when I was my leanest and strongest, how I loved to be included in the pictures, how proud I felt being hungry and not just mindlessly eating. I have two vaca coming up this summer and I am determined to be down another 10 lbs for those ---
back on the wagon for me today, hit the gym, did some dog grooming, and laundry. off to a good start for the week![]()
Hope you have a great April Dona!I am with Rose. I am coming back too. I may not do a weigh in this month. I just want to get back to eating right and starting to work out again. My eating for the last couple of weeks has been pretty good but I want to concentrate on being with a group that will encourage me and getting back into a fitness program.
This week is the one year anniversary of my dad's death and the 2 month anniversary of my father in law's death. But we are waiting to hear some news from ds2 and that is coming this week so we are excited about that. I will announce it when we know more.
See you a lot more in April.
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I volunteered this morning, had a job interview this afternoon, went to the gym (despite the fact that I forgot I wore spanx--spanx and working out is not a good combo) and then came home and walked the dog for two miles. I should finish up way under my calories for the day. I did my weigh in for the dietbet this morning.
Hope everyone had a great last day of March!