If you have doubt, change your resort. Go somewhere you know you'll be 100% happy.
Everybody likes different things. Thank goodness!! Otherwise, we would have only one type of resort ... they would all be identical! Obviously the Y&B is not the best resort for everybody. Obviously the Poly and Grand are not the best resorts for everybody. We had a guest a few weeks ago that got upgraded to the Beach Club from Pop Century because they were overbooked. The mother was livid. Can you imagine? But she loved Pop Century!!! If the posters on that "hate BC thread" had done their homework, they wouldn't have even booked the Y&B. If you are a planner and do your homework, you will only book a resort that has what is important to you (like a crowded, loud, crazy with pushing guests, food spilled all over the place food court or a pool where you can see your children no matter where they go). Only you can decide what is important to you. Do you like being in one building or would you prefer walking ten miles to different out buildings? Do you like the monorail to take you to Magic Kingdom (and waiting 10 minutes for it every time and then the wait when it stops for "traffic") or would you rather walk into Epcot in 4 minutes? Would you prefer to take a bus to Hollywood Studios or a boat? Personally I prefer the bus ... I hate the boats. Are you going nonstop and only sleeping in your room or will you plan on spending lots of time at the resort and partake in the numerous activities around the resort?
There is a perfect resort for everybody and it is not the YC or BC or BCV. Thank goodness!!! Otherwise, the Y&B lovers would never get a reservation. However, on this thread, you will find out the answer to most of your questions about the Y&B so you can make an educated decision on what resort is best for you and your family.
My husband worked at the Contemporary for two years as a greeter. If he won a trip there, he wouldn't allow us to stay there. We hate that resort. I'm telling you that so you don't think I'm just talking good things about the Y&B because I work there. That is not true. I love the BC and do not care at all for the YC. They are the exact same resort ... same GM, same CMs, same amenities. However, the decor and guests are different over there. Some people love the Y&B but really do not care for the BC. One is dark woods and lots of adults and convention guests ... it's very quiet and serene. One is light, breezy, full of activity and kids and noisy (probably because I'm talking non-stop in the lobby). Different strokes for different folks. I just booked two rooms for Bob and me and Jeanne and Brian for next week at the BC. If it wasn't available, I would not have booked at the YC ... even though they basically want to stay there just for the pool. I just don't care for the "feeling" of the YC and refuse to spend that kind of money to stay somewhere that I don't 100% love. Again, different strokes for different folks.
Hope this helps!
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!!

I really appreciate your words. From many of your posts, I can tell you care tremendously for others. It's so refreshing!
I have been researching for MONTHS and MONTHS and MONTHS. We booked POR last August with free dining!

But it just never felt right. I have never stayed anywhere onsite except WL (stayed with a DVC member for free...can't beat that!). We always rent a house. I switched to ASMu Family Suite in early March. My kids will love it and we'll love the space. I KNEW I wanted to stay at BC or the Poly after visiting them both on my last trip, but we could not afford either one for 9 nights. Since we are a "legal 6" this will be our last time to fit in a standard size room so we decided on the split stay. It will be the best of both worlds for us without breaking the bank (well too much anyway...ha).
We booked a garden view room (with the room only discount), but then after reading this thread my DH thought CL would be good for us since we won't have the dining plan for our BC stay. We plan to use the lounge to the fullest!
Honestly, I'm still torn between BC and Poly. If we switch to the Poly we will not do CL, but we will save a little $$. (And I can eat a LOT of dole whips with that saved money...lol!). My DH doesn't see the need to change our resort again. I guess I keep thinking that we won't be able to stay at the Poly again, but we could and WILL rent DVC points to stay at BCV.
I have 2 possible itineraries planned right now. Gay Days will be going on during our stay so we are going to try to avoid those bigger crowds at the "park of the day" so we are working around that. We WILL have a rental car all but the last day of our stay. (I cut/pasted this from Excel...yes...I'm THAT person...ha!) We will have done our hard core park times all ready, so we will take full advantage of the resorts during these last 4 days. We will probably only do short park visits.
CHECK OUT OF ALL STARS and CHECK INTO BEACH CLUB
3-Jun Magic Kingdom Girls Only; BBB at 11:30; 1900 Park Fare 4:40 p.m. (Grand Floridian)
4-Jun Epcot/ Swim; Camp May Café 8:05 a.m. (Beach Club)
5-Jun Return Rental Car to Disney Car Care Center
5-Jun HS or MK/Swim Dinner at Beaches and Cream
6-Jun Departure Day
CHECK OUT OF ALL STARS and CHECK INTO POLY
3-Jun Magic Kingdom Girls Only BBB at 11:30; 1900 Park Fare 4:40 p.m. (Grand Floridian)
4-Jun Epcot/Swim
5-Jun Return Rental Car to Disney Car Care Center
5-Jun Magic Kingdom/Swim/Wishes (from beach!) Breakfast at O'Hana 10:20 a.m. (Polynesian)
6-Jun Departure Day
Thanks for listening to my rambling!

Any advice from you veterans would be much appreciated!!!!!!