Saturday
Buckle up for the ride folks, its our last park day!
We were tired and worn out. We let ourselves sleep in a bit today. Didnt get up until 8am (now thats more like it!!). Wesley was REALLY tired and worn out. I let him sleep til almost 9:30, even though we had planned to be at Epcot at 9. Oh, well. He needed the sleep.
Now, a word (or several) about Commando Mode. As Ive said, in reading our reports, you probably cant believe that we arent commandos. But its true! Yes, we are often at a park (or two parks) from open to close. We seldom, if EVER, go back to our room for a mid-day break. But that just doesnt work for us. That is partly because most of our trips are
well
whirlwind trips. We dont have the luxury of time. Going back to our room (especially when not staying deluxe) means a minimum of three hours out of the park, when Wesley will likely only get a one hour nap, if that.
And theres another issue
naps. You see, our little Wesley is a night owl. Just like his parents. (Thank goodness!) And though he was a very good napper for about 3 ½ years, that was pretty much it. About last September, we noticed that though he did, in fact, take a nap every day
he wouldnt go to sleep at night until 11pm. Or midnight. So then he would wake up tired the next day, and take an even longer nap, and the cycle kept getting more and more vicious. Eventually, we decided that him sleeping at night was more important than him getting a nap. And, basically, that was the end of his napping. Now we put him to bed around 7:30 (on a good night), and with any luck he is asleep by 8:30. However, he has great stamina (if you dont believe me, see my last weekend of Feb TR. The child was up from 7am til 2am. With a 45 minute nap.) He will still nap in the car (when I use the IF card
), and he will often nap in his stroller when we are at WDW. But leaving the parks for the PURPOSE of him getting a nap
well, it just doesnt work.
Another thing many people enjoy doing is taking an afternoon swim break. Another NADA for us. For one thing, our best friends have a pool. Water is not a novelty to us. Why SWIM at Disney? I can SWIM at home! And especially you cold weather types
you will swim in ANY weather, simply because youre in Florida. Folks, you can lie to your neighbors. If you are in FL in January and the high is 50º, do NOT feel like you still have to get in the pool, just because you told everyone in Minnesota that you were headed for warm weather. You can tell your neighbors back home that it is 83º and sunny if that makes you feel better. But why on earth do you feel the need to get in a pool, simply because you are in another state? Sorry, that was just an aside rant, and dont give me the spiel about the Disney pools being heated. Youve gotta
get out some time. Anyway. Pools. Water. At Disney. Just not our thing. Wesley is more than a little timid in a familiar pool with a small group of people he knows. A huge pool with lots and lots of loud splashing people is a definite: Uh, NO! When he gets older, who knows. But I have a feeling hed rather be riding Rock N Roller Coaster than swimming.
Now, Mark and I used to be Commandos. Serious Commandos. We had a list of rides to ride, and the goal was to ride as many as possible, as many
TIMES as possible, before we had to leave. And this was pre-FastPasses, folks. We had a
SYSTEM. We didnt
ONLY do the thrill rides
we also hit all of Fantasyland, just because it was classic Disney. But it was mainly about the thrill rides. We have done MGM, MK and Epcot in a single day. We did not see a single character or a single parade, and we certainly did not have sit down ADRs. In fact, we didnt even know ADRs (or at the time, PSs) existed. And we would never have dreamed of wasting ride time sitting down paying a lot of money for a meal.
As embarrassing as it is, I have a confession to make. Has Mark told our honeymoon story? I cant remember, so here it is, briefly. We were going on a cruise. Big Red Boat. Arrived, were told they werent ready to board anyone yet. Went to Kennedy Space Center. Went back to terminal. Were told we could get out, but dont bring your luggage~yet. They began making announcements: We will begin boarding in 15 minutes. They would make the same announcement 20 minutes later. This went on for a while. And finally, they said we werent boarding. At all. Had to do with safety upgrades and a Coast Guard inspection that they never had. So the Coast Guard wouldnt let them sail. It was a pretty big deal. Made USA Today, even. And made for a pretty rotten start to our honeymoon. So what else do we do? Go to Disney, of course. Decided to stay onsite (for the first time
I
KNOW!!), and go to the Contemporary. So Mark called and told them our sad, sad story
and when we arrived at the Contemporary the next day, they told us wed been upgraded to tower, MK view,
CONCIERGE!!! WoooHoooo! Sad thing is, we didnt even know how awesome this was. We just thought it was cool that we had free water bottles to take into the parks. Our one concierge experience, and we didnt even know enough to appreciate it. BUT, it did one thing for us:
CEMENTED our love and appreciation for Disney, in general.
ANYWAY, I guess that is embarrassing enough. But the other part is, even on our honeymoon, we didnt eat a single table service meal. Wed never even heard of California Grill, and we were *right there*. Cosmic Rays, woooohooooo! I suppose you could say that we just didnt appreciate the finer things in life at the time. Fast forward about 5 years, we have a little one, weve become foodies, and we want to make a trip to WDW
start doing a little research
(I found the DIS)
and discovered that you have to PLAN your dining in ADVANCE. Huh. What a concept! So we did. And weve never looked back.
Since then, we have become connoisseurs, of sorts, of WDW cuisine. Some of its finest. (We have not yet done V&As. Maybe one day!) Not that we dont still enjoy Cosmic Rays or Pecos Bills on occasion. And for heavens sake, you
ALL know that Marks favorite place to eat in (almost) all of WDW is Tangierine Café.
Thanks, once more, Mark! But my point in this is that we found other facets of WDW to love
and it has been an evolution for us, from Thrill Ride Park Commandos to a slower paced, eat-our-way-around-the-world, take-time-to-smell-the-roses (sometimes literally), poke-around-and-see-what (or WHO)-we-can-find style of adventure. And it has been a very fulfilling adventure, indeed.
How did we get there? Well, when you have an 18 mo old, there isnt much you CAN ride, thrill-wise. I mean, you can do baby swap, but we like to ride TOGETHER. Whats the fun of riding Rock N Roller Coaster if you cant scream in each others ears? Or is that just us? We found that, in its own way, Peter Pans Flight was just as much fun as Space Mountain. Not as thrilling, certainly
but still fun. And Ive gotta say: Id rather be riding Peter Pans Flight WITH Wesley than riding Space Mountain WITHOUT him.
The other thing is, we had 5 day park hoppers, but because we couldnt go for 5 straight days, we were milking our tickets, taking these little short
WHIRLWIND
trips. So wed go for a Thurs-Sat, and go to the park(s) only on Friday. Saturday wed spend at an out-of-the-parks character meal, and browsing at DTD, or maybe checking out other resorts, before heading home.
And since I mentioned characters, Ill discuss that here. I thought long and hard before posting this, but I figure that most people are set in their Disney ways, and a bunch of rambling from me isnt going to change their style. And if a few do start doing things differently
well, hopefully they wont be there the same time as us, so they wont take up our character interaction time! Basically all of our awesome character experiences have been by accident
or just plain luck. (Magic, if you prefer!)
Our first magical experience (which I wrote about in my first ever trip report) happened at Chef Mickeys. We had a late seating (I think because it was the only thing available
see, this was just by accident!), and ended up with the characters to ourselves. Us and one other family. This was Wesleys first encounter with characters, and he wasnt overly keen on them. The thing about characters is that they are pretty darn good at figuring out who really likes them, and who would rather them go about their merry way. I have seen exceptions to this, but most of them are very perceptive. So on that morning, Mickey, Pluto, Goofy, Chip and Dale had been skirting our table. Maybe a wave as they went by. Minnie, however, was a different story. She would stand way back, wait til Wesley glanced her way, then wave at him. Then shed make her rounds. The next time, she would come a little closer, then blow him a kiss. The next time, she would come closer still, and play Peek-A-Boo. It was working. He was getting interested. And by the time it was all said and done, Minnie was holding him, he was kissing her on the nose, and patting Pluto. I truly believe that if Minnie had not taken all that extra time with him, he would not love the characters in the same way that he does today. That day, we all became Minnie fans. For life. Wesley doesnt even remember that. But he loves Minnie anyway, and we know why. Mark and I do remember it, and likely always will. My only regret is that we didnt send a letter of appreciation to her.
After that, Wesley got slightly braver around the characters. He sometimes needed a little encouragement, but he never refused to see them, he never cried, or anything like that. One interesting thing we found, however, was that (especially as he began talking) he preferred the fur characters to the face characters. For most children, its the other way around. But because he is often shy when talking to people he doesnt know (which certainly isnt a BAD trait), he didnt like the face characters, because they would TALK to him
expect him to TALK to them!
Wesleys Disney love runs DEEP. He has
LOVED Disney since he was about 14 months old. That was about the time we moved to the church we currently serve, and there was a lot of stress in his life (moving is hard on EVERYONE, no matter the age!). He became fixated with Toy Story and Toy Story 2
Before we had a Woody, Buzz or Jessie doll (we have all three now, along with Hamm, Rex, Slinky, and other assorted TS characters
), Wesley would SLEEP with the movie boxes. Hug them tight to his chest. When he was 17 months old, he fell and hit his head on the corner of our coffee table (which now resides in the attic). Had an overnight hospital stay to make sure there was no skull fracture (thankfully, there wasnt), and for observation. The ONLY thing that kept him calm was watching Toy Story. A friend brought us her copy, and we probably watched it 8 times while we were in the hospital~less than 24 hours. It was right after that incident that we decided it was time for his first trip to The World. (Thankfully, Woody, Buzz and Jessie couldnt talk!) So for a year or so, we focused primarily on the fur characters, and left all the little girls to the princess room.
After that year, his Toy Story phase kind of
faded out. I must admit, I miss hearing that little baby voice talk in his crib (to the movie boxes) about Woo-wy and Buh. But now he was REALLY into Peter Pan. Unfortunately, we didnt have any great Peter Pan experiences. And Captain Hook kind of intimidated him. But that year, we took our first trip to 1900 Park Fare for breakfast. And we fell in love with our first face character: Alice. (Although
she turned out to be OUR Wendy!) We also had great, fabulous, wonderful interaction with Mary Poppins and Bert. (Also further detailed in a previous trip report.) That was in September. Around that same time, Sleeping Beauty also became a contender in the favorite movie category. We did both CRT and PSB that trip, but neither of them really seemed his thing. Didnt matter. Daddy enjoyed them both!
In December of that year, we were back. Sleeping Beauty had a slight edge over Peter Pan. We were THRILLED to find Prince Phillip and Aurora outside of the castle at the Christmas party, and we stood in a long line to meet them. Not that Wesley cared about the length of the line
he was all about meeting Phillip and Aurora. It was later that night that we walked by the castle and saw the handler (or greeter, as they are called by CMs, I believe) standing outside alone. And thats how we discovered that Cindy, PC, Aurora and Phillip were inside. All alone. We took pictures with them individually, with both princesses giving him kisses, and with all of them. It was really, really cool.
That same trip, we had an incredible experience with Aurora at Epcot. We found her in France, again with no one around. And after a few moments of shyness, Wesley, our quiet, shy, reserved little boy, was talking a mile a minute to her, with his head in her lap and his feet stretched out on the wall. Uh-larious. What makes it even better is that Aurora had the hiccups! He had been to see Santa as Downtown Disney, and told him what he wanted for Christmas: a Diesel 10 (the bad guy from Thomas the Tank Engine), a kitchen and a sucker. He told Aurora all about seeing Santa, and what hed asked for. So Aurora asks him, if he gets his kitchen for Christmas, what will he cook for her? A hotdog. (His favorite food at the time.) A hotdog, says Aurora. Oh my prince, its all Ive ever wanted!! All the while trying to royally handle her hiccups. We saw Aurora again this past February, and she remembered Wesley as the hiccup boy. She even remembered that he was going to cook her a hotdog. Had she not had the hiccups, she likely wouldnt have remembered that encounter with Wesley. So call it accident, luck, fate, whatever
We call it a magical memory. (BTW, Wesley did, indeed, get his kitchen. And he still loves to cook. What a prince... handsome AND he cooks. Did your DD see *that*, horsey??

His two favorite cookbooks are, of course, Disney cookbooks. He make a mean ~pretend~ Goofy's Birthday Cake!)
There are many layers to the character experience. First, you have to have contact with them. For Wesley, his shyness has actually been an asset. He wants to see the character initially
but when he actually gets to them, he gets shy. But once his turn is over, hes gained a little confidence, and wants to go back. Heres where were different from most everyone else: we allow him to see them again. Rather than rushing him off to another ride or another attraction, we let him get back in line. If he wants to see a character, well see the character. Going to see them more than once makes him a little more memorable. Especially since, lets face it, hes just darn cute! Another thing is, if you see the same character more than once, it helps if you recognize that youve seen them before. For instance
I recognized the hiccuping Aurora this past February. Had I not mentioned the episode (which happened over a year before!), Im certain she wouldnt have recognized Wesley. So sometimes you have to help the magic along.
Other times, you get incredibly lucky, as we did with OUR Wendy
SHE remembered HIM, without any prompting from us. (That was a first for us. And for the record, the times we saw her in February were, to that point, the ONLY special attention we had gotten from any character
in the sense that she knew where we would be sitting for the afternoon parade, and asked some of her friends to be really nice to Wesley. And of course, now shes gone, so we dont have that in anymore.)
We have asked ourselves over and over why he gets such special attention. Why was HE picked to ride the Barnstormer with Goofy (which was one of his dreams), when there were so many other kids around? Why does Captain Hook always notice him during the parade? Why does Princess Aurora always ask him to dance? The truth is, we dont know. But we are grateful. You know, Disney rides are great. Disney shows are fabulous. But one on one interaction with characters is unbelievable. Special. Magical. The kind of things that stay with you forever. Commandos have fun. But they rarely find magic.
We are there for the magic!
And I realize that I have said nothing about our day, per se. But this is important stuff.
Carpe diem!