We prefered 1900 Park Fare Breakfast. We enjoy the characters there, Alice, Tigger, Mary Poppins and the White rabbit.
Both Breakfasts are good, so it comes down to location and characters.
I would give Crystal palace a leg up on food, a small leg up. But we like the characters at 1900 park fare better.
We have 2 Daughters as well, 12 & 13.