We are planning a trip to Disney World for 2009 but we're getting together this Sunday to talk about the trip because there is so many of us going (13 between the ages of 2 and 50, 7 adults, 1 junior, and 5 kids). My husband and I want to stay on-site because we'll be able to take our 2 children (2 and 4 at the time we're there) back to the resort room for a rest in the middle of the day. My parents want to stay off-site but do not want to rent a car which I've told them we'd have to do. My husband and I think it'll be much better to just stay on-site because then we don't have to really wait for anyone (my sister who will say she'll be some where in 1/2 and hour and actually show up 1 1/2 hours later) when we want to go to the park with the kids. What does everyone recommend? Is it even possible to stay off-site without a car and still be able to go back to the hotel for a break with our children? I should also mention that all 13 of us have never been to Disney World so we're completely new to it and I'm the planner for the whole trip (Thank goodness for the Dis board).
Thanks for reading and giving your opinion.
Hi,
I strongly recommend staying on-site at a Disney Resort...
Free transportation to and from the airport.
No car rental or parking fees.
No directions or traffic stress.
The ability to split up with ease.
Convenient for returning to the resort for an afternoon break, nap or a swim.
The advantage of Extra Magic Hours (EMH) in the parks.
Leave the real world behind and be surrounded by Disney Magic your entire vacation.
If cost is a factor, consider a value resort. They're great and your Disney experience won't be any less magical. You would qualify for a Grand Gathering, special events for parties of 8 or more. You could do any, all or none of the Grand Gathering events, but it would also link all your room reservations together so your rooms would all be near each other. If it's an option, and you are interested, you could stay at a DVC. Be sure you do a lot of research, first.
Off-site -
If you choose an off-site location, be aware that some hotels that offer transportation, sometimes only have 1 or 2 drop-off, pick-up times. Also, sometimes they share buses with other area hotels and I understand they don't always guarantee the transportation. You will most likely need to rent a car, and for a party of 13, probably two.
Either way, be sure to schedule some Advance Dining Reservations (ADR) for a few restaurants you'd like to try.
When we travel with a large group (Wait! With 5 children, we are a large group...

when we travel with others... we decide which day we'll visit which park, then we make ADR's for dinner. We usually start each day together, then split for awhile in the afternoon... some stay in the park, some return to the resort for a swim or nap, and then we meet back up for dinner and take in the evening shows. We plan at least one day for each park, but we also always plan an additional 1 or 2 days for "free time" so everyone can do their favorites, take in missed attractions, visit Downtown Disney, a water park or relax at the resort. If we end up spending these days together, great, if not, that's okay, too.
Have a great time!