Is there a chance that he can still order off the kids menu???? We are thinking about the DDP and my DS just doesn't eat large meals and a lot of different foods....
Yes, they will allow anyone to order the kids meals, even adults. The only key thing to remember is that a kid cannot order an adult meal and use the DDP. So say your 9yo wants a an adult meal and you are on the DDP, she has to order from the kids menu or you have to pay for the adult meal.
Of course, disney makes $$$ on people who are 10 and would rather eat a kids meal over the adult meal while on DDP so it's in their favor to agree to it